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Disrespectful Bridesmaid-Update

LATOYA Posted:

Disrespectful Bridesmaid-Update

Guys I'm steaming right now! My wedding is in 4 days and I had my rd dinner yesterday at my FMIL house. We had a backyard bbq. While I was in the house chit chatting with my FBIL my MOH came in the house to tell me my bridesmaid was being disrespectful. She told me my BM said 'how the f*** u marry into this family?' In front of my mother! My mom didn't hear her but I feel there's a certain way you should behave in front of your friend's family its just some things u don't say or do especially when you're at my inlaws house! Who does that??!!! I'm so angry I feel like kicking her out my bridal party. I'm going to try to calm down and sleep on it and just talk to her tomorrow. If she acts like this at a rehearsal dinner I'd hate to see how she would act at my wedding. Vent over thanks for listening guys.



Eta: so I called my bridesmaid to discuss her actions at my rd she apologized and said she was kidding around. I told her I will not tolerate any disrespect at my wedding I didn't want to come across as a 'bridezilla' but we did have a talk. I just hope and pray for no drama at my wedding I'm going through enough
Moonmist09 Posted:

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i don't know if i would kick her out with only 4days left to go but i would def talk to her about it.
i agree that you should behave a certain way in front of other in a function like this
adelz Posted:

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I'm sorry you're dealing with this 4 days before the wedding!!!

I agree that it's beyond disrespectful, especially around your new family, who you're marrying into! In my book, anyone that has something negative to say about my family or the family I'm married into, doesn't deserve to stand next to me during the wedding or any other day. I know that sounds harsh, but people should be happy for others and especially when they're in company, should watch what they say.

Goodluck w/ the talk with her!
MrsKon1111 Posted:

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Posted by adelz

I'm sorry you're dealing with this 4 days before the wedding!!!

I agree that it's beyond disrespectful, especially around your new family, who you're marrying into! In my book, anyone that has something negative to say about my family or the family I'm married into, doesn't deserve to stand next to me during the wedding or any other day. I know that sounds harsh, but people should be happy for others and especially when they're in company, should watch what they say.

Goodluck w/ the talk with her!




Totally Harsh but i 100% completely agree
adelya21 Posted:

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Thats beyond disrespectful! and if any of my BMS ever said that, I wouldn care if it was 15 minutes before the wedding, she wouldnt be my BM anymore. I am sorry that you have such a nasty person in your life.

LATOYA Posted:

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Thanks for listening to my vent guys I was fuming but I'm a little more calm and I will definitely talk to her and give you guys an update.

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