Do any of you Past or Soon-to-be Brides have...

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Posted by cantwait2bewed

Obnixious FH's or husbands? Sometimes my FH can be so obnixious. When we have arguments he get's really nasty. I really hate this.

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my FH is very mild tempered. If anyone causes him to lose his temper - it's usually ME and my wedding anxiety!

He's not obnoxious, just very stubborn. We both tend to be and neither of us give in. Usually we need a few hours or sometimes a day to cool down and talk rationally.

Sorry to hear.

mine can be obnoxious sometimes.... he talks really loudly, and he can get very set in ways sometimes. even with his friends... the other night him and a few of his guys friends were playing poker and i was just watching. FH wasn't paying attention, and went out of turn, so the rule is you have to double the pot if you bet out of turn and FH was blaming his friends for distracting him and 'making' him go out of turn.... just little stuff like that... hes an only child, his mom has never worked, and his dad only works like one week a month ( hes a pilot ) so FH is used to getting tons of attention and getting his way... but after 4 years hes pretty much out of that and he spoils me... but every once in a while his spoiled obnxious side will come out... so i feel for you on this one

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Posted by cantwait2bewed

Obnixious FH's or husbands? Sometimes my FH can be so obnixious. When we have arguments he get's really nasty. I really hate this.

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it happenes some times. when it does happen i just put him back into his place..lol other times he is very loving.

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Posted by ML110

mine can be obnoxious sometimes.... he talks really loudly, and he can get very set in ways sometimes. even with his friends... the other night him and a few of his guys friends were playing poker and i was just watching. FH wasn't paying attention, and went out of turn, so the rule is you have to double the pot if you bet out of turn and FH was blaming his friends for distracting him and 'making' him go out of turn.... just little stuff like that... hes an only child, his mom has never worked, and his dad only works like one week a month ( hes a pilot ) so FH is used to getting tons of attention and getting his way... but after 4 years hes pretty much out of that and he spoils me... but every once in a while his spoiled obnxious side will come out... so i feel for you on this one

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My FH is the exact same way when he plays cards and other games with his friends. He is an only child too and always wants to get his way. Please dont tell me your FH is a Taurus too?

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Posted by salsbride06

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Posted by cantwait2bewed

Obnixious FH's or husbands? Sometimes my FH can be so obnixious. When we have arguments he get's really nasty. I really hate this.

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it happenes some times. when it does happen i just put him back into his place..lol other times he is very loving.

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Yeah FH usually gets really obnixious when i make him mad. Other than that he is soooooo sweet. But boy when you get him started he is nasty.

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Posted by ML110

mine can be obnoxious sometimes.... he talks really loudly, and he can get very set in ways sometimes. even with his friends... the other night him and a few of his guys friends were playing poker and i was just watching. FH wasn't paying attention, and went out of turn, so the rule is you have to double the pot if you bet out of turn and FH was blaming his friends for distracting him and 'making' him go out of turn.... just little stuff like that... hes an only child, his mom has never worked, and his dad only works like one week a month ( hes a pilot ) so FH is used to getting tons of attention and getting his way... but after 4 years hes pretty much out of that and he spoils me... but every once in a while his spoiled obnxious side will come out... so i feel for you on this one

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I have almost the same situation. FH is an only child...his mother never worked out of the house (she babysits kids at home) and he is very self centered some times. Last night we had an argument about saving money and he said he doesn't have to explain to me where he spends all his money...that i'm not his mother. You're supposed to share more with your wife than your mother. I'm not asking him to explain where every little cent is going, but I've managed to save over $1000 since we've been engaged and he hasn't put anything aside. All I was asking is when he's going to start contributing. Most times he is a really nice and sweet guy though. They all have their moments.

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Posted by merri221

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Posted by ML110

mine can be obnoxious sometimes.... he talks really loudly, and he can get very set in ways sometimes. even with his friends... the other night him and a few of his guys friends were playing poker and i was just watching. FH wasn't paying attention, and went out of turn, so the rule is you have to double the pot if you bet out of turn and FH was blaming his friends for distracting him and 'making' him go out of turn.... just little stuff like that... hes an only child, his mom has never worked, and his dad only works like one week a month ( hes a pilot ) so FH is used to getting tons of attention and getting his way... but after 4 years hes pretty much out of that and he spoils me... but every once in a while his spoiled obnxious side will come out... so i feel for you on this one

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I have almost the same situation. FH is an only child...his mother never worked out of the house (she babysits kids at home) and he is very self centered some times. Last night we had an argument about saving money and he said he doesn't have to explain to me where he spends all his money...that i'm not his mother. You're supposed to share more with your wife than your mother. I'm not asking him to explain where every little cent is going, but I've managed to save over $1000 since we've been engaged and he hasn't put anything aside. All I was asking is when he's going to start contributing. Most times he is a really nice and sweet guy though. They all have their moments.

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Oh my goodness. Me and FH just had and argument the other day about money. I said to him that he shouldnt go buy this shirt b/c we have to save for our home. Mind you that same day we were going to be late for the appt. with the architect who is building our home. So he go really mad at me and was like he contributes the most of the money so I shouldnt be telling him what he can buy with his money. Even though that is true he shouldnt get obnixious and rub it in my face. I started to get so mad over this.
And yes they all have their PMS moments. That's for sure.

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Posted by SweetCin704

He's not obnoxious, just very stubborn. We both tend to be and neither of us give in. Usually we need a few hours or sometimes a day to cool down and talk rationally.

Sorry to hear.

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Same here.. although he does have this annoying habit that he has to have the last word in every conversation..... Only i dont let him!!!!

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Posted by jesslangen

We are both very subborn people and hate to admit when we are wrong. But eventually we come around and everything is ok!

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That's kind of like us. We snap at each other sometimes, but then it's dropped later.

Mine cna be kind of arrogant at times..but 'stuy kids aren't arrogant...we're the best' we were bred to be arrogant.

FH can be, but I think I am much worse!

He is pretty calm and sweet most of the time!