I got engaged 1 1/2 years ago and getting married this July. My BF just got engaged a few months ago and is getting married this June..using the same reception site..same number of bridesmaids...same style bridemaid dress...her mother went to the same stores my mom went to for her gown and asked to see the dress my mom bought...I feel like she is stealing my wedding and she keeps asking me who I'm using and where I got this or that. I feel like she just cut right ahead of me so she can get married first (reason that I think this is because when I told her that I got engaged she started crying because since she is older than I am she said that she should of gotten married first) That's why I think she picked a month before mine.
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WTF?!?!?! What kind of friend would do that? I would be downright pissed!! Talk to her. Find out what her deal is.
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she is a wedding hog and we shall have a roast right here on LIweddings!!!
LOL
But your BF, if you can call her that is wrong and you need to tell her how you feel.
RedHead
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Yes that would REALLY annoy me. But hey make the best of it. You get to go to your hall and see how good they are
Stop sharing ideas
OctGroom
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I don't know why people pull this crap, to be honest. I have a BM.. who's a very good friend who got engaged before us.. and we totally did not want to cut in front of them.. and we wanted to get married in Oct anyway. She'll be a June bride this year.
We went to a reception hall (my FW invited her along) that she all of a sudden started to REALLY like and she starts asking about available dates for that hall.. even though she had ALREADY booked at another hall.
She's a really good person but I could not understand what the hell she was doing.
We drove home pissed off at her.
We decided to sit down an dtalk to her and hint how awkward things would be if two weddings were similar.
Maybe you can do the same. It worked for us.
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I don't want to tell her that I'm pissed because then she'll know it really bugs me. Silly aren't I? Yesterday she asked me about invitations and where I got my garter. It really takes a lot of concentration for me to not to tell her anything because before (thinking that she would get married after me) I told her everything...gave her business cards so I could help her out. But I learned that it was the worst thing to do.
LOL about the roast!!
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I think you have a right to be upset --- I really just don't understand things like this b/c I really go out of my way to be different.
I do have friend who is getting married soon that is copying a lot of the things that I did for my wedding. Although I know that imitation is the sincerest compliment it irks me.
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That would really PI$$ me off.
This shouldn't be a time when you have to think before you tell people about things that you are excited about. JMO
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I'm so sorry - that is so wrong!! I know it doesn't do much to make you feel better, but know you are being a good friend and you are your own individual. Whatever you do - don' t tell her about this sight...she'll get all your secrets!
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What is wrong with some people??? You have every right to be upset!
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I would be thats fro sure...
I AM SO SORRY....
Spitzergirl
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Honey 1st off.........
That is why, I tell people not to let other friends/coworkers know what your exact plan is. PEOPLE ARE SO JEALOUS............they don't want you to be happy!!!!!!!!
I am quite sure if the shoe was on the other foot, this friend of yours, would not give you business cards...etc...to help you. I think, you should stay away far away from her as possible.............. because you guys sound like you are competing...
I know she is the bad guy, don't worry too much about her.....she probaly don't have too many friends.....
I am shock Leonards...had a June date for her, without waiting at least 1 year in advance!!
