I got engaged 1 1/2 years ago and getting married this July. My BF just got engaged a few months ago and is getting married this June..using the same reception site..same number of bridesmaids...same style bridemaid dress...her mother went to the same stores my mom went to for her gown and asked to see the dress my mom bought...I feel like she is stealing my wedding and she keeps asking me who I'm using and where I got this or that. I feel like she just cut right ahead of me so she can get married first (reason that I think this is because when I told her that I got engaged she started crying because since she is older than I am she said that she should of gotten married first) That's why I think she picked a month before mine.
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YES! I would be! I am sorry!
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that sounds VERY planned. that is not right of her. not because you should worry about someone getting married before you, but because she obviously is doing something on purpose and she is supposed to be your friend.
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Yeah! I would be really pissed and I'm sorry but I don't think she is really your friend.
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Yes I would be very upset...and I WAS!
My best friend got engaged 4 months after me and then RUSHED and planned a 6 month wedding so she could beat me to the altar.
I am just thankful that I did keep a lot of details from her, because the few that I did share with her, she copied.
Sorry!
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I WOULD BE VERY UPSET
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i would be as upset as you.And I am. my friend did the same thing. I just stopped telling her about the wedding plans. If she calls then talk to her and just catch up with each other but NO WEDDING talk.
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yeah, id be pissed. dont give her anymore information, and remember your day will still be your day
mich
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oh gosh. that seems so petty to me. I would be upset too!
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You have every right to be upset! I wouldn't share too much info in the future.
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I would be upset too. Many That is soooo not right!
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HUGS-- I had the SAME THING happen... luckily it did not get as far as your situation. It is completely wrong. Don't tell her anything more about your wedding!! It is wrong wrong wrong. Be thankful your wedding is second... it will clearly be the bettr of the two!! Save the best for last!!
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Does your friend have any class?? Does she have a style of her own?? Did she tell you about all her plans before she booked everything or did she tell you only after they were done?? If she told you only after they were done, she is a wedding hog and we shall have a roast right here on LIweddings!!! Anytime you need to vent about her...feel free and we will respond with something to keep you smiling. Find a really bad band or DJ and tell her that you are looking to book them and so should she! Everyone will remember how awful the music was. Girls can be vicious. LOL
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You have EVERY right to be upset about this! She is obviously very jealous that you were getting married before her. Just remember that no matter what she does, when she gets married, it will not take away from the happiness of your wedding day.
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I swear it is more of that CRAZY GENE. It is the only logical explanation for this kind of behavior. YOu are just one of the few that this has happened to,. It is just nonsense, as soon as you decide to get married everybody else all of a sudden gets bit by the wedding bug. You have every right to be pi%*ed about her childish behavior
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WHAT? I would FREAK!!!
You really need to talk to her and tell her that you put a lot of thought into planning your wedding and really wanted it to be unique Explain to her that although you value your friendship, you feel that she is making your wedding less special and you are very hurt.
From now on, don't share anymore of your ideas/plans.
Actually if it were me, I would tell her ALL my 'plans' ie: dollar dance, carnation centerpeices and bridal bouquet, electric blue bridal gown, BM carrying parasols (sp?) instead of bouquets etc.
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I would be PISSED as well. I'm so sorry this is happening.
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It's so wierd that the ppl that you would think that would be most happy for you turn out to act so freeky about it. She is just jealous. Def. don't tell her about any more plans.
