im confused, like do you need to invite them by themselves, or like just your friend w a guest. id say yes your friend w a guest but no your friend w a guest and then someone they date sometimes w a guest. im even more confused now, lol
okay, now i understand the question. i dont know on this one, i kinda feel like you need to invite friends with a guest even if they arent in a serious relationship. but if you have to cut corners, thats probably the best place to do it.
Posted by JACSANT
im confused, like do you need to invite them by themselves, or like just your friend w a guest. id say yes your friend w a guest but no your friend w a guest and then someone they date sometimes w a guest. im even more confused now, lol
Posted by JACSANT
im confused, like do you need to invite them by themselves, or like just your friend w a guest. id say yes your friend w a guest but no your friend w a guest and then someone they date sometimes w a guest. im even more confused now, lol
Im probaly going to get alot of slack for this but I say invite those you want to invite and no one else...I am refusing to follow what is proper on this one...I want to enjoy my wedding with the people I love that are close to me that I want to share in my day ...period......if people dont like it oh well ..and I know this seems horrible but honestly I just dont feel the need to invite the aunt Ihavent seen since I was 2 or the friends boyfriend/girlfriend who has been around off and on for a year...I know its horrible but its what im doing
Posted by MJDoc12
Posted by JACSANT
im confused, like do you need to invite them by themselves, or like just your friend w a guest. id say yes your friend w a guest but no your friend w a guest and then someone they date sometimes w a guest. im even more confused now, lol
I think she means a friend---who has on/off again relationships with someone. like should she invite her friend with a guest, knowing they will probably just bring someone who they aren't serious with, just to have a date
i think this is a personal choice. DH and i invited all friends with a guest. only because i know how much i would HATE to be invited to a wedding, as a 'single' and have to sit a a dredded singles table while there are couples everywhere. most of our single friends did not bring a guest anyway, but appreciated we invited them with one.
but if your budget is tight, then only invite ppl who ar in a serious relationship or engaged as a couple, only. and let the single friends know that this is a budget thing.
Posted by kellybean
Im probaly going to get alot of slack for this but I say invite those you want to invite and no one else...I am refusing to follow what is proper on this one...I want to enjoy my wedding with the people I love that are close to me that I want to share in my day ...period......if people dont like it oh well ..and I know this seems horrible but honestly I just dont feel the need to invite the aunt Ihavent seen since I was 2 or the friends boyfriend/girlfriend who has been around off and on for a year...I know its horrible but its what im doing
Posted by MJDoc12
I think she means a friend---who has on/off again relationships with someone. like should she invite her friend with a guest, knowing they will probably just bring someone who they aren't serious with, just to have a date
i think this is a personal choice. DH and i invited all friends with a guest. only because i know how much i would HATE to be invited to a wedding, as a 'single' and have to sit a a dredded singles table while there are couples everywhere. most of our single friends did not bring a guest anyway, but appreciated we invited them with one.
but if your budget is tight, then only invite ppl who ar in a serious relationship or engaged as a couple, only. and let the single friends know that this is a budget thing.
Posted by bemyyoko
we are only inviting boyfriends and girlfriends of a serious nature.
I don't think you HAVE to invite anyone.
Weddings are expensive.
I'd rather invite people i'm close to than people i rarely see.
Well listen, I mean if you are sitcking to a certain number of invites then theyll just have to understand. I mean those are the ones to cut if they are not in a serious relationship. Theyll just have to understand that weddings these days are very expensive and you cant invite everyone.
we're inviting everyone with a guest.. this way noone feels left out or whatever
Posted by Songstress1212
Posted by kellybean
Im probaly going to get alot of slack for this but I say invite those you want to invite and no one else...I am refusing to follow what is proper on this one...I want to enjoy my wedding with the people I love that are close to me that I want to share in my day ...period......if people dont like it oh well ..and I know this seems horrible but honestly I just dont feel the need to invite the aunt Ihavent seen since I was 2 or the friends boyfriend/girlfriend who has been around off and on for a year...I know its horrible but its what im doing
I dont think youre mean at all for doing this. I wish I could do it but like a dummy, I care to much about what my family is going to say if I dont invite certain people. Good for you!
Invite your friend w/ a guesttttttttttttt
