Do I send an invite to FHs and my parents

kaangel217 Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:05 PM

Do I send an invite to FHs and my parents

I was wondering if I'm supposed to send an invitation to my parents and to FH's parents? They are both included in the invitation and both FH and I live at home

DrmnBlnd Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:06 PM

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Both FH and I still live at home, and we are sending them. I just think it will make them smile to get it in the mail...

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:06 PM

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I plan on sending invites to my parents and my future inlaws--even though we still live at home.

nylisa Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:07 PM

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I am going to send them because I know that they are going to want to save it.

SReidy Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:08 PM

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We're sending them to ours also.

julz33 Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:09 PM

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My mom is definately gonna want to save it!

NYCHICK Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:10 PM

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I am sending mine also. I think it is kind of cute.

Boop2704 Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:10 PM

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We sent one to my mom, because we wanted to see how fast people would start receiving the invites. We also sent one to my dad, because he is clueless and would probably forget the date and we gave FH's dad his by hand.

btrflygrl Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:11 PM

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FH and I live in his parents house and we sent invites to both sets of parents, as well as the entire BP

usuk2004 Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:12 PM

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FH mailed to his parents because they don't live near him (nor do they live near one another). I didn't mail one to my parents because it's a very traditional invitation and says Mr & Mrs. Blank Bland request the honor of your presence...in other words, they're hosting and the invites are supposed to be from them. But I have plent left over to save

xjulietx Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:12 PM

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We wil give the invites even though we both live with our parents. I am not sure if we will send them, though.

OctGroom Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:13 PM

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I would.. it's kinda cool.

Boop2704 Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:16 PM

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I would definitely send your parents one. My mother is the one that stuffed our invites and she was still excited to get it in the mail!!

Sage10.03 Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:20 PM

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You definitely should...they will want them.

itsbouttime Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:23 PM

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i am, my mother would kill me if i didn't.

AJsMommy122 Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:24 PM

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We dont live with our parents, but I am still definitly sending them. I dont want any stress over ' Wheres my invitation? I didnt get one' blah blah blah -

Kra5hnburn Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:33 PM

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Be careful!!!! Definitely give them a whole invitation package, but you might want to feel out if you should SEND it to them, or GIVE it to them. My mom went ballistic when I sent her and invitation to our engagement party. I did it because I thought she'd want it with the date stamped on the envelope. Apparently, she saw this as extremely disrespectful and said if I loved her and she mattered, I would have hand delivered it to her. Just my experience, and you can bet she's getting a hand delivered wedding invite now!

palebride Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:50 PM

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We're mailing the invites to each set of parents even thought we each still live at hime. I think it's a nice touch for them to be able to look at the mail and see the invitation!

Of course....if they have voiced an opinion in the past they they prefer it to be nad-delivered - go with that method....save the stamps!!!

Marcela1654 Posted: Jan 20, 2004 04:54 PM

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We still live with our parents..we're hand delivering it to them.

sun86moon Posted: Jan 20, 2004 05:02 PM

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Sent to both sets of parents. Fh lives at home and I live on my own. A) Wanted to see how long it would take to get to them, Long Island and Brooklyn, B) they will both appreciate it and C) even though we put both sets of parents names on it.