its not rude at all, in fact i want to have an 'only play' list where they play only the songs I pick. I figure this may be rude, but my FH and I are very picky with music and refuse to pay someone to play songs we abhor. thats why we really want to just play an ipod with our own songs but i dont know if that will work....anyways, a do not play list is perfectly appropriate, lol.
I have two lists. What to play and what NOT to play under any request, complaints etc.
I never thought about it yet...and I think its a good idea...seriously...who's wedding is it? lol....I dont think its a 'bridezilla' move at all...
our dj asked for one
Not rude at all. there are plenty of songs that I refuse to listen to...especially at our wedding!
Not rude at all. I plan on giving my dj instructions as to what to play and not to play.
We actually did that at our engagement party. FH specifally requested no Gloria Estefan songs...LoL (don't ask). But it is not rude at all!!
Posted by Espo22
i have a long list ill post tomorrow bc im about to go to bed but here are just a few
usher-yeah
anything black eyed peas
b52's
nelly-hott in herrre
ok really need to go to bed, im gonna annoy fh with the tapping of the keyboard
Posted by kimNanthony
'I will survive' if definitely on my do no play list. I feel like its not appropriate for a wedding!
I think the DO NOT Play list is more important than the play list! You're not a bridezilla; all the bands we spoke with expected it. Make one and don't tell FSIL if she's going to get cranky about it.
eletric slide.
Posted by Rissespieces
Would it be rude to have a do not play list.? FSIL said that it would be. Yes i know it's not her wedding but I also don't want to be a bridezilla.
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Espo22
i have a long list ill post tomorrow bc im about to go to bed but here are just a few
usher-yeah
anything black eyed peas
b52's
nelly-hott in herrre
ok really need to go to bed, im gonna annoy fh with the tapping of the keyboard
ok other songs to add to the list, i have one at home so cant remember them all now:
no electric slide
who let the dogs out
cha cha cha slide
no la bouche, C&C music factory and all that
cotton eyed joe
macarena
ok i cant think straight lol, ill just wait until i have my list in front of me
It is not rude to tell your DJ that you have a do do play list, I am going to tell them to their face, ABSOLUTELY no electric slide, chicken, frog dance etc etc, no corniness, lol
Posted by GinaZ
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Espo22
i have a long list ill post tomorrow bc im about to go to bed but here are just a few
usher-yeah
anything black eyed peas
b52's
nelly-hott in herrre
ok really need to go to bed, im gonna annoy fh with the tapping of the keyboard
ok other songs to add to the list, i have one at home so cant remember them all now:
no electric slide
who let the dogs out
cha cha cha slide
no la bouche, C&C music factory and all that
cotton eyed joe
macarena
ok i cant think straight lol, ill just wait until i have my list in front of me
OKay so what if I say dont play anything cheesey or anything that has a 'dance'. Would they play any of this stuff? Im worried Im going to leave off something and they will go ahead and play it.
Our DJ gave us paper work with a play and do not play list. It is not rude at all.
