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Do the BM's have to carry?

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Dec 11, 2002 12:14 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2002 12:14 PM

Do the BM's have to carry?

Flowers?

I want Muffs.......

Am I wacky?

MarcellaBella Posted: Dec 11, 2002 12:25 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2002 12:25 PM

Re: Do the BM's have to carry?

LOL.. sorry I'm a perv lol

they can carry whatever you wish.. parasols, fans, etc. I was going to have my girls carry fans, but instead they'll carry a small arrangement..

wacky Posted: Dec 11, 2002 12:27 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2002 12:27 PM

Re: Do the BM's have to carry?

funny marcella,

They can carry whatever your heart desires.

shamma Posted: Dec 11, 2002 12:50 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2002 12:50 PM

Re: Do the BM's have to carry?

I have seen them carry a purse, a single stem of rose or calla and even candles

Sonicstef Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:05 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:05 PM

Re: Do the BM's have to carry?

At one girls wedding, the BMs carried 'wands'. Martha Stewart profiled a beautiful wedding where the BM carried lanterns. Its really up to you.

Not crazy about the muff thing but that is jus tmy opinion...nothing wrong with bucking the trends.

JENHOS Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:08 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:08 PM

Re: Do the BM's have to carry?

I have seen it done lots of ways. It is really your choice. The muffs could be very cute since you are having a winter wedding. What color would you get? What color are the girls wearing?

berlykim22 Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:11 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:11 PM

Re: Do the BM's have to carry?

i agree you can have them carry whatever you wish.

I think the idea is cute and different

dcbride Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:19 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:19 PM

Re: Do the BM's have to carry?

I actually went to a wedding where they used muffs. To be exact white furry muffs and there were a couple of flowers in the front. It worked well for a winter wedding. I can't remember if the bride used a muff too.

michele31 Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:26 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2002 01:26 PM

Re: Do the BM's have to carry?

Your girls can carry anything you want them too. I think muffs are cute for little girls, but it will not be easy to find an adult BM dress that looks good with a muff. But if you want them to carry muffs than I think that is fine.