DO YOU ?

HAVE THIS PROBLEM? ALL WEEKEND I WAS FIGHTING WITH FH. WE LIVE TOGETHER (GOD HELP ME) AND HAVE BEEN LIVING TOGETHER FOR OVER 2 YEARS. SOMETIMES I WANT TO POKE HIS BEEDY LITTLE EYES, and SCREAM! THIS MORNING I CRIED BUT THATS BESIDE TEH POINT. I ALSO SAID SOMETHING VERY RUDE. WE WERE FIGHTING AND HE SAID ' THIS CONVERSATION IS OVER' AND AS I WAS WASLKING OUT I SAID ' YEAH AND SO IS THIS RELATIONSHIP'

I KNOW I AM PMS'ING BUT UGH! SOMETIMES HE MAKES ME SOOOOOOOOO MAD!

we usually fight on the weekends, I guess it is just too much time together

Oh lord yes. I think its from a lack of alone time. At least it is for me. I am an only child, and am very used to having some time by myself. But with FH following me everywhere, sometimes I get frustrated and we start fighting. We has 2 sdibleings and doesn't really understand the need for me to have alone time and

wait..

I am blabbering.

Nevermind.

THANKS LADIES....
I AM FEELING REALLY DOWN AND YOU REALLY MAKE ME REALIZE IM NOT THE ONLY BUMMED OUT BRIDE 2 BE TODAY..
I KNOW MEN SUCK AND THEY ARE A TOTALLY DIFFERENT BREED BUT AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

I HATE FIGHTING!

maybe you two need to set aside some alone time! everybody needs their own space once in a while

I KNOW, I KNOW.. THAT IS DEF TRUE.. I FEEL WE DONT SEE ENOUGH. HE WORKS NIGHTS, I WORK DAYS.. WE SEE EACHTOHER FOR 3 HOURS AND THEN HES OFF TO WORK.

MEN ARE WEIRD, WHY IS IT THAT US WOMAN CAN BALANCE OUR FRIENDS AND FH, AND FH CAN NOT.. THEY HABG WITH US AND THEN WHEN THEY ARE TIRED OF US THEY PUSH US AWAY - ARGH!!!!!!!!
WHATS THE MATTER WITH THEM?

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Posted by jonspenguin11552

I KNOW, I KNOW.. THAT IS DEF TRUE.. I FEEL WE DONT SEE ENOUGH. HE WORKS NIGHTS, I WORK DAYS.. WE SEE EACHTOHER FOR 3 HOURS AND THEN HES OFF TO WORK.

MEN ARE WEIRD, WHY IS IT THAT US WOMAN CAN BALANCE OUR FRIENDS AND FH, AND FH CAN NOT.. THEY HABG WITH US AND THEN WHEN THEY ARE TIRED OF US THEY PUSH US AWAY - ARGH!!!!!!!!
WHATS THE MATTER WITH THEM?

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Oh girl, don't even get me started. FH had a caniption fit when I told him about the cross country trip I want to take. It has been my life long dream to do this. He's like 'you're not going, it's too dangerous, why do you want to go without me' (mind you, he doesn't want to go). I am so used to being alone, it's difficult dealiong with the needy. I expect if from a child, not a full grown man.

I have a car now so I can go out without him if I want. And let me tell you, he doesn't like that either. Well, tough buddy! Just because I am marrying you doens't mean I lose my own life in the process.

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Posted by JacnRob729

I think its the day....IM not mad at FH but i just feel bummed out today.......I really just want to sit here and do nothing......this is bad.....i feel so down...i hate it

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Welcome to my world. I feel like that most days.

Pat and I fight too. But honestly, we fight because we don't see eachother as much as we used to. It kinda sucks to hear people say they see eachother too much because I wish I had that rather than hardly seeing eachother.

I am sorry you feel this way right now. Try not to say hurtful things...when you say something, you really can never take it back. I've learned that the hard way.

Good Luck!!!

ETA: Good Luck to everyone going through this. I truly understand that we need our alone time. I appreciate some time alone but it must be nice to come home to someone every single night and to wake up with someone next to you. Think about how fortunate you girls are....that might work to ease some of the tension. Again, Good Luck!!!

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Posted by azoodie2

maybe you two need to set aside some alone time! everybody needs their own space once in a while

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that is very true, I need my alone time but Greg it seems just wants to spend all his time with me... his is even jealous of books when I read them

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Posted by Aga

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Posted by azoodie2

maybe you two need to set aside some alone time! everybody needs their own space once in a while

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that is very true, I need my alone time but Greg it seems just wants to spend all his time with me... his is even jealous of books when I read them

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LOL! Gary is jealous of my computer.

I live with my FH for a yr now.. We argue all the time, but to me that's good, Not the fact that we argue, but we agree, to disagree..
Can your relationship weather the storm.. ?? IT's not always going to be life in paradise,, and if u can argue and still deal with eachother, then that's the real test!

WOW.. THANK YOU LADIES.

I THINK ITS OUR SCHEDULES ETC.. I GO ASLEEP ALONE AND WAKE UP ALONE, I SEE HIM FOR 20 MINS THEN ITS OFF TO WORK FOR ME.. WE HAVE DINNER TOGETHER AND THEN 930 HES OFF TO WORK..

GOD, WHEN DOES IT GET EASIER?

BUT THANK YOU LADIES FOR ALL YOUR HELPFUL WORDS.

AND YES IT MUST BE THE WATER!!

wait til you have kids then there are even more things to fight about!!!!!!
who is to strict and who let the kids have chocolate so late at night blah blah blah...but it is all worth it.
No matter how much you fight you know that you always love eachother(even when you want to poke out his beedy little eyes)

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Posted by jonspenguin11552

THANKS LADIES....
I AM FEELING REALLY DOWN AND YOU REALLY MAKE ME REALIZE IM NOT THE ONLY BUMMED OUT BRIDE 2 BE TODAY..
I KNOW MEN SUCK AND THEY ARE A TOTALLY DIFFERENT BREED BUT AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

I HATE FIGHTING!

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1. not all men suck (me and serveral other poster on LIW)

2. whats with the caps? i know your upset

my personal experience, yes i do fight with fw (live together 6 yrs, engaged a litle over 1) and we only had 1 major fight since we got engaged.

Now, since you live with each other, chances are, you will see him again. when you do, have an open converstation about everything. there is more then just this fight that led to him saying that. you both owe it to each other to keep trying.

i hope everything works out for you.