DO YOU ?

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Posted by Borricuamorena0905

I live with my FH for a yr now.. We argue all the time, but to me that's good, Not the fact that we argue, but we agree, to disagree..
Can your relationship weather the storm.. ?? IT's not always going to be life in paradise,, and if u can argue and still deal with eachother, then that's the real test!

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you are right and usually you get some things out in the open during fights that you had no idea were bothering you...

Thanks all, I appreciate all your concerns.
We had a MAJOR blow-out last night and were up till 2:30am, with him. We cried and we hopefully will change our ways. Things this morning were better and he admitted we were a team and we have to work on it together.
But anyway, thanks for all your help. You guys are THE BEST!

Oh and for the people that the CAPS offended, my apologies.

When we first lived together (for about 2 years) we fought a lot! Its a big adjustment period

However, once we learned more about each other, with some adjustments on both parts, we don't find so much no more... Its calmed down.

... maybe it helps that he is always working at the hospital now that he is a resident and we never see each other

I think fighting is normal. W/out fighting there would be no making up!

We live together too (October makes 2 years, wow. time flies) We agrue, but it's like nothing. Like yesterday, I hung up the phone on him because he didn't want to take a pen out to write down the limo companies (thanks girls for the reccommendations). I didn't even call him back to apologize for hanging up. So I went to pick him up from class at 9pm (he works and goes to school full time) and he starts tickling me and saying 'Oh you think you're bad huh'. At the beginning I used to start arguments because it was like our relationship was too perfect..no drama. But now, I just deal with it. We argue, we make up. I sometimes say this relationship is over too, but he just laughs at me.

About alone time. I like to read and I think that if we're both sitting together reading books that it's time together. FH doesn't like to read that much and he doesn' count reading as quality couple time. So now, I let him watch TV and I read (I can zone anyone out) and he's fine. During the first year it was reallu hard transitioning. He likes loud music, I don't. He likes to study with music on, I don't. He loves (yes loves) his computer, I have grown to like it.

I'm rambling. All i'm trying to say is that disagreements and arguements happen, but it's how you make up that counts. Don't hold grudges. Forgive and move on.

Me and FH rarely fight.. and we have been living together for almost a year-- but, practically lived together throughout the rest of our relationship.

We tend to bicker a little- if anything.. and it is mostly my stress- and him getting annoyed with it.