i was just thinking about how some couple say that they have never had an argument with their FH ever. Can any of you honestly say this? i cant imagine how it could be possible to never ever have a disagreement but i wouldnt mind being proven wrong!
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i can lol well recently i posted that we almo0st had our first fight.....we have never yelled at eachother or stormed away for oneanother. we disagree and have talked very stern to eachother trying to get a point across but we have never had anything i can consider a fight!! our friends say thats not a good thing! FH said we should find something to fight about so we can get it over with lol
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ok 'we' dont argue,,,,I argue and he deals till I calm down ....maybe once has he argued back....He dosent take it he just knows me well enough to know I wont listen till I run out of steam!!
jessamyn78
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We argue and I think everyone does sometimes. There is no way that you can agree on everything single thing with your FH.
jteach711
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of course fh and I argue, but in the 3 years we have been together and over 2 that we have lived together we have learned how to fight the right way. We are not mean or nasty and the fights are not drawn out, and we both apologize when we know we were wrong.
Arguing is healthy, it gets out all of your emotions. Could you imagine if you held everything inside
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People have to argue its human even if its the most stupid arguement ever. I mean maybe they don't get into heated raging arguments but they have to have some kind. It's actually healthy I read to argue a little bit. It shows you care I think if you stop arguing your just letting things go and build up.
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We have our arguments. Nothing huge but I think you have to be a certain type of person not too. I am way too fiesty, verbal and confrontation not too...lol We laugh after though which is good
femmes
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we dont fight..i just tell him 'Dont piss me off' and he understands.
angl2001
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arguing and dissagreeing is different than fighting....is that waht u meant people who say they have never had a fight with their FH? everyone argues. but like i said we never have had a 'fight' we always talk everything out thats just us
Luvbsb4eva
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If we didn't argue i'd be worried! Yeah we argue over stupid things a lot, but we make sure we never go to sleep mad at each other... I think that is extremely important.
ant n tilde
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we have been together nine and a half years - we scream and fight and get down and dirty when needed. i mean - when we fight. . .we fight DIRTY - gloves are off
BUT i can honestly say we have never stayed mad for more than two days. . . we fight hard but get over it pretty quick LOL
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LOL forget even the question about have i argued with FH, i dont know many people personally I haven't argued with well those im very close to
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Posted by angl2001
arguing and dissagreeing is different than fighting....is that waht u meant people who say they have never had a fight with their FH? everyone argues. but like i said we never have had a 'fight' we always talk everything out thats just us
i don't know i consider arguing and fighting the same thing basically. Whats the difference?
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Posted by jteach711
of course fh and I argue, but in the 3 years we have been together and over 2 that we have lived together we have learned how to fight the right way. We are not mean or nasty and the fights are not drawn out, and we both apologize when we know we were wrong.
Arguing is healthy, it gets out all of your emotions. Could you imagine if you held everything inside
i agree!! especially for couples who live together...if u dont fight at all i feel like someone is just holding back on something...fh and i fight...more like bicker and get annoyed at each other sometimes...ill yell (well not yell i guess more like raise my voice) he'll yell back and then one of us will either end it by appologizing or sometimes we'll both just realize what we're fighing over is stupid and we'll end up laughing at each other lol
soon2BMrsMcD
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Sure we've 'argued' but we've never gotten into a HUGE fight. We've been together 8 years and have never ever gone to bed mad at one another. We always resolve our issues in like an hour!
angl2001
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i think fighting is more getting loud or screaming and storming away from eachother.as arguing and disagreeing are a little more calm. There are times i wanna yell at him but i dont! and he knows better than to do it to me! lol
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Posted by Luvbsb4eva
If we didn't argue i'd be worried! Yeah we argue over stupid things a lot, but we make sure we never go to sleep mad at each other... I think that is extremely important.
lol i cant sleep mad either...there was one time fh i guess was just tired and started to fall alsleep that made me more mad! i woke him up and was like 'i cant sleep!!!!' haha
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Posted by angl2001
arguing and dissagreeing is different than fighting....is that waht u meant people who say they have never had a fight with their FH? everyone argues. but like i said we never have had a 'fight' we always talk everything out thats just us
Yes, you have a point, there is a difference. it would have to depend on what your definition is of 'fight'. im not sure what that would be. maybe an argument that extends constantly over a long period of time, like going to bed angry.
ant n tilde
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you guys are so awesome
i think i have anger management issues - i have screamed at FH at the top of my lungs like a million times - i have even punched him LOL
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Posted by angl2001
i think fighting is more getting loud or screaming and storming away from eachother.as arguing and disagreeing are a little more calm. There are times i wanna yell at him but i dont! and he knows better than to do it to me! lol
Oh ok then I fight lol, its just the way i am lol. I yell even when im just disagreeing with somebody but my dads the same way and we always yelled when we had disagreements lol. I yell at people on the street too, maybe i just have issues. Plus if any little thing bothers me i say it i cant keep anything in even when i try then its like OMG i have to say it, no matter how small it is lol.
