Do you ask this to DH/BM/SM/JW?whatever you're calling him?

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Posted by JXNOscar

We do the 'what are you in the mood for'
with 17 menus in front of us. NO ONE will state the food they want. It's a royal pain in the a$$

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omg this is us too.

then it goes.


'ok so what DON'T you want'

that question we are always able to answer.

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Posted by superkat

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Posted by ssdbk

He gets low blood sugar, so I ask him if he needs some suge (same pronunciation as Suge Knight.)

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If I ask JW if he wants some suge, he doesn't think I am talking about food.

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I am waiting for the day that my FH catches on to the idea that Suge may not mean food.

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Posted by superkat

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Posted by ssdbk

He gets low blood sugar, so I ask him if he needs some suge (same pronunciation as Suge Knight.)

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If I ask JW if he wants some suge, he doesn't think I am talking about food.

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a$$ candy

I ask him this every day

and the wierd thing is - sometimes he wont eat for the whole entire day and he STILL won't be hungry!

if i am 15 minutes off schedule i have been known to actually cry out of hunger . . . he should seriously be 100 lbs. . i dont know how he does it!!

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Posted by itslaurie.

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Posted by JXNOscar

We do the 'what are you in the mood for'
with 17 menus in front of us. NO ONE will state the food they want. It's a royal pain in the a$$

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omg this is us too.

then it goes.


'ok so what DON'T you want'

that question we are always able to answer.

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Process of elimination, that helps!!

Now I feel better, I know we're not alone!!

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Posted by JXNOscar

We do the 'what are you in the mood for'
with 17 menus in front of us. NO ONE will state the food they want. It's a royal pain in the a$$

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Our dinner arguements will always start like that. Then I will list food after food, naming maybe 47 things we could eat, to which he will continually respond with 'no'.
So I will say- 'what do you want?' Likely in a louder voice each time. And he will say 'I don't know- you pick'.

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Posted by SuzBride

No. I have zero percent mothering instinct. What the hell is wrong with me?

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I'm totally with you there.

AND I'm with child - whens that mothering instinct gonna kick in?

This arguement actually has the ability to transcend topics.
'What do you want...'
1) To eat
2) To do today
3) To see in the movies
4) do about planning that trip you want to take in 2 weeks?!?!?

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

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Posted by SuzBride

No. I have zero percent mothering instinct. What the hell is wrong with me?

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AND I'm with child - whens that mothering instinct gonna kick in?

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Do you have an Andrea Yates instinct? Because that is pretty much the opposite of a mothering instinct. If you aren't vibing Andrea, you are probably ok.

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Posted by stephanielyse

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Posted by Naunie

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Posted by JXNOscar

We do the 'what are you in the mood for'
with 17 menus in front of us. NO ONE will state the food they want. It's a royal pain in the a$$

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Our dinner arguements will always start like that. Then I will list food after food, naming maybe 47 things we could eat, to which he will continually respond with 'no'.
So I will say- 'what do you want?' Likely in a louder voice each time. And he will say 'I don't know- you pick'.

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Do you all live in my house?

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I do. Now that I think about it this is a legitmate arguement we have 3 times a week

i ask him everyday.

it is a mom question.....

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Posted by stephanielyse

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Posted by JXNOscar

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Posted by stephanielyse

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Posted by Naunie

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Posted by JXNOscar

We do the 'what are you in the mood for'
with 17 menus in front of us. NO ONE will state the food they want. It's a royal pain in the a$$

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Our dinner arguements will always start like that. Then I will list food after food, naming maybe 47 things we could eat, to which he will continually respond with 'no'.
So I will say- 'what do you want?' Likely in a louder voice each time. And he will say 'I don't know- you pick'.

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Do you all live in my house?

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I do. Now that I think about it this is a legitmate arguement we have 3 times a week

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Last night I seriously made dinner only for myself because he was being so grumpy about not wanting anything specific. Then, when my dinner was in the oven, he finally made a decision.

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I threw dinner away last night. I give up with him sometimes

I just walked by him and without even thinking asked how his lunch was.

Had to report back to this thread!

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Posted by stephanielyse

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Posted by cindyandkevin

I just walked by him and without even thinking asked how his lunch was.

Had to report back to this thread!

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So, how was it?

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Good. (with the head nod)

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Posted by kittythestray

. He'll e-mail me 'it was good' and I'll know he meant lunch.

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or so you think.