Do you call your FH when you will be late or have a meeting etc?

Ok, a question. Do you always know where your fh is going to be and what time he will be home from work etc.? If you had a meeting after work or had something to do and forgot to call him and tell him and then called around 9:30pm to say you are on your way back home would he be mad that you didn't call earlier and leave a message? Would it make a difference if you did not live together? Thanks for your thoughts

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We live together and he gets home first. He always knows around what time I will be home. If I will be later, I call or he would worry. He sometimes cooks dinner and has it ready for when I get in.

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Yes I always know where FH is. Same with him.
I'd remember to tel him I would be in late, because we live together and plan our dinners together.
If we didn't live together, and I forgot, he may be alittle pi$$ed off but I don't think it would be a major argument, but I'd call out of respect. I always say a phonecall takes a minute

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As a matter of courtesy (not because I HAVE to or he MAKES me) I call him and vice versa. This way if we have plans or anything else we can adjust. If I run to the store or mall or anything else I'll tell him but not so he can CONTROL me but rather it's more of 'do you want me to pick something up for you while I'm out'.

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We're trying to do that, but he tends to call more than I do when late and I try to keep him posted, but we're still adjusting to the whole living together thing...

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Same here. I call out of courtesy and he does the same. One night he had a softball game at about 8 which is over by nine and then he didn;t come home until midnight! He never called to say he was going to get a beer and I was worried. I wound up calling his cell phone at like 11 pm to see where he was. It wasn;t a fight or anything..but I think now he knows to do it.

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I only call when I know he will be home before me (which is not usually the case) so he doesnt worry. If he is going to be late, he always calls me.

When we did not live together - I called him no matter what.

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We just call and check in. But I usually know where he is. If I didn't call Matt wouldn't be mad, just worried.

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my fh usually lets me know if he will be home late, mostly as a courtesy to me because during the week i do the cooking (he gets home much later than i do). most days i call him at work in the late afternoon anyway so he lets me know his plans. before we lived together he didn't tell me when he was going to be home late and i never really felt that i needed to know, unless of course we had plans. it is an extremely rare occasion that i would ever get home later than my fh, but i don't think he would be too upset if i didn't tell him about it. he would probably just call my cell phone to see where i was.

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yes, we always call each other to let the other know if we will be late, etc...
if i didn't hear from FH i would be worried...& so would he...

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same here, we always call, & usually know where the other one is.

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Same Here Curly...I give him the courtesy of a phone call so he won't worry...we both drive to and from work so we always get stuck in traffic.

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We don't live together, but we usually do keep eachother posted about where we are. We do it just out of courtesy, so neither one of us worries.

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We Always call. Thats what cell phones are for.

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I always try and call him if I'll be late. He gets home before I do so I like to let him know in case he's making dinner. Also, because I used to get on his case big time if he didn't call to let me know he'd be late. He used to do that a lot but he stopped when he realized how much it upset me. I'm a worrier!!

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I call my FI if I'm going to be late and he does the same. Since we live together we just found that this works for us so that no one has to worry.

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Same as Lulu. We both get worried if we don't hear from the other especially when the weather is bad. I have 'hit me' written across my car. I have lost track on how many accidents I have been in!

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Yes, since we live together - we call each other if we are going to be late so that one doesnt have to worry about the other...

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We always let each other know as a matter of courtesy and to keep each other from worrying. This goes on now and we don't even live together yet.

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Yes and no. W/ his job, making a phone call is not always possible, but usually he'll call when he's on his way home. His schedule is so loony, I don't really get worried if he's not home when he thought he would be.

I'll call him but only if I know he'll be home.