Everyone keeps asking me what I want as far as the sex of the twins. And I keep saying I would love 1 of each. Or if someone says I think your having one of each I instantly say 'From your lips to God's ears'
But then I feel guilty thinking that way. Truth be told as long as they are both healthy I will be happy. But, I do feel guilty thinking the way I do.
Maybe it's just my hormones getting all nutty. I just wanted to know if I'm the only one.
JimmysBride
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I think it's your hormones. There's nothing to feel guilty about. Of course the first thing we all want to have healthy babies. I think that's a given. Next, we'd like to be able to choose the sex - nothing wrong with that!
Princessmaris
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I know what you mean... whenever people ask me what I want I always say girl, but as long as its healthy Id be just as happy with a boy....
Sometimes... I think maybe I shouldnt say it anymore...
The Original 2nd-time-around
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When I was pregnant with Scotty I was hoping so hard for a girl, but I felt like I couldn't tell anyone that because I did feel guilty for even thinking it. But it's natural! Everyone that I know that has been pregnant all had a secret wish for one or the other.
jcndd
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It should just be KNOWN that everyone wants a happy, healthy, perfect baby. But I think everyone has a 'want.' It's perfectly natural and you shouldn't feel guilty!
Will you find out their sexes or are you going to let it be a surprise?
michele31
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Every single mother wants a healthy baby...but I am not ashamed to admit that I really hoped that I was having a girl. I would have loved a boy the same but something inside me wanted to have a girl very badly. Maybe it was that Molly was a girl and my heart already knew it.
IrishTracy
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Will you find out their sexes or are you going to let it be a surprise?
Nope we are waiting to the day the arrive!!
Niecey
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I think everyone wants a happy and heathly baby...there is so nothing wrong with favoring a certain sex or in your case one of each.... if I had to chose....I always wanted a boy first.
mrsmay31
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You're not the only one.
Everyone wants a healthy baby. I didn't care whether or not my first was a boy or girl, but now that I have a little girl, I would really like to have a little boy. Even though my DH says he would be thrilled with another girl, I would love to give him a son.
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Posted by jcndd
Will you find out their sexes or are you going to let it be a surprise?
