ok long story short ... we are getting married during the day and having the ceremony at the RH. i called once to ask if they could move our ceremony up so we could have more time inbetween the ceremony and reception to take pictures and they said they couldnt do it ... i waited a couple of months and i called back again tonight. i felt kind of annoying but i told her it was really important that we didnt see each other before the ceremony and i was afriad of not having enough time for pictures and still making it to the end of the cocktail hour ... sooooo she move our ceremony up by 15 min ... which may not sound like a lot but ill take anything! i just felt like i was annoying ... and i hate feeling that way!
I don't think you were being annoying - it's your day...if you are now happy...that's all that matters!!!
gina409
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its ur day..u did what u had to do and trsut me im positive they have dealt with much more horrible brides..u were def not annoying
azailia
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don't worry i think i am soo annoying especially with tessa. she has the patience of a saint!!
coldasice217
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That wasn't bad at all! Don't feel that way...just be happy that you stuck to your guns, and got something that was important to you
Utterhappiness
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I feel like you dindt ask for that mush at all... like June said... you wanted it your way and now you are happy... you are the bride and you shoudl be happy! End of story!
PS... yes sometimes I feel like I am an annoying bride
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You are paying them more than enough. They should be accomodating. I had an annoying bride moment with a vendor that i was embarrassed about for over a month about. I basically demanded something after signing the contract w/o it because I found out that basically almost every other bride on here was getting a freebie that I was not getting. I wrote a letter that was a bit on the nasty side about how I was disappointed in their policies/customer service/ whatever. Thats so not my style to ever say anything but I just did it. I felt like an idiot after because they were like you can't demand something but then they still gave it to me. I felt bad about it for a while but then I was here online and saw a post about that vendor and what everyone was getting, and I realized I had every right to do what I did and I wasn't wrong. So stop stressing it.
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the funny thing is your day starts just like mine and i asked to move the ceremony up for the same reason and they looked at me like i had 50 heads and say they cant because what are they going to do with all those people lol. i felt like saying for 16k thats your dam problem. but i was nice (im just going to be like 5mins late to my reception) no biggie..lol
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I think that compared to some brides, you're not annoying at all! I'm sure vendors love the brides that come in, pay, and then show up on time and don't make any trouble but after a year of planning and all the other stuff, things are bound to change. So you edit away! It's your day and you're paying plenty of money to have the privilege of changing your mind and asking questions.
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I don't even want to know how ANNOYING I can be.....you only called twice.....I've had certain vendors I called 6 times a day.
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I think I am one of the annoying bride. HEHE Venue- I called Robert from JT on a regular basisi Menu & Newsletter- I called and email Lisa from Elite Affairs on everyday basis Customized Wedding Creations- Cherin OMG I cannot tell you how many times per day.
