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Do you ever worry about revealing too much here?

Original post by TracyInQueens

I would love to vent away about stuff at work, but I worry that someone I work with would find it. I know that might be a little egocentric of me, but I am paranoid, mainly because my real first name is part of my screen name.

Also, I know someone on the other site I visit a lot (an online journal site) who wrote a long, angry entry about her boss. She'd mentioned the name of her workplace and someone (she never found out who) copied and pasted her entry into an e-mail and sent it to her boss. She ended up losing her job.

Does anyone else worry about this?
RedHead Posted:

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Goldi...I totally understand the HIPPA thing.~~~


But YES i am NOW quite aware of the backlash that can offer when you offer up too much info.

I forget that this isn't our little LIW bubble...It is the internet, where any LUNATIC can read. SO now i plan to be much more careful about the things i say
swags1016 Posted:

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I do especially in light of recent events. In December some former members of this site sent stuff to my house and at the time there were only 3 people that knew where I lived. The goverment is still looking into charges against them for that. Long story. Then the other night someone on this board claimed to see myself and another member at a restaurant.

I very RARELY post pictures on this site anymore. DH will NOT allow me to post pictures of the baby when I have it or when what date I am having it. He will not allow me to post the name or any details of the birth thanks to the above named people. Sad to say people like these and the lurkers take the fun out of the site. It's scary to think about what you put out there.

So with that please be careful what you post. You would be surprised how much info is really available about you on this site.

I hope I am making sense but my feeling are really hurt right now, by something that was said- so just be careful girls!
MrsERod Posted:

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Posted by swags1016

I do especially in light of recent events. In December some former members of this site sent stuff to my house and at the time there were only 3 people that knew where I lived. The goverment is still looking into charges against them for that. Long story. Then the other night someone on this board claimed to see myself and another member at a restaurant.

I very RARELY post pictures on this site anymore. DH will NOT allow me to post pictures of the baby when I have it or when what date I am having it. He will not allow me to post the name or any details of the birth thanks to the above named people. Sad to say people like these and the lurkers take the fun out of the site. It's scary to think about what you put out there.

So with that please be careful what you post. You would be surprised how much info is really available about you on this site.

I hope I am making sense but my feeling are really hurt right now, by something that was said- so just be careful girls!



OMG Jamie... Definitely take the case full circle and don't let them get away with that!!!
I'm so sorry you have to deal with such BS!!!
swags1016 Posted:

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Posted by MrsERod


Posted by swags1016

I do especially in light of recent events. In December some former members of this site sent stuff to my house and at the time there were only 3 people that knew where I lived. The goverment is still looking into charges against them for that. Long story. Then the other night someone on this board claimed to see myself and another member at a restaurant.

I very RARELY post pictures on this site anymore. DH will NOT allow me to post pictures of the baby when I have it or when what date I am having it. He will not allow me to post the name or any details of the birth thanks to the above named people. Sad to say people like these and the lurkers take the fun out of the site. It's scary to think about what you put out there.

So with that please be careful what you post. You would be surprised how much info is really available about you on this site.

I hope I am making sense but my feeling are really hurt right now, by something that was said- so just be careful girls!



OMG Jamie... Definitely take the case full circle and don't let them get away with that!!!
I'm so sorry you have to deal with such BS!!!



Thanks Christina,

The case is out of my hands since they sent things through 3rd parties, the companies, post service and internet crimes are handling the case. I have NO say in the matter what so ever anymore. It will be a slow long process, it might even take them awhile but all of the companies that had to pay for the information that was fraudulantly supplied to them are looking to recoop their losses. Also I think last I heard FBI or someone else is looking into it too since they presented themselves as me that is identity fraud. They told mortage brokers and such that we wanted to sell our house and things like that. So totally out of my hand but again as I said:

Please be careful what you posted. Just because people post on this site regularly does not mean they are sane!
MrsERod Posted:

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Posted by swags1016

Also I think last I heard FBI or someone else is looking into it too since they presented themselves as me that is identity fraud. They told mortage brokers and such that we wanted to sell our house and things like that. So totally out of my hand but again as I said:

Please be careful what you posted. Just because people post on this site regularly does not mean they are sane!



why would someone be so cruel?? thats just disgusting!!
but you know what - 'God Doesn't like Ugly', and they will eventually get theirs!! what goes around, comes around!
TracyInQueens Posted:

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Posted by swags1016

I do especially in light of recent events. In December some former members of this site sent stuff to my house and at the time there were only 3 people that knew where I lived. The goverment is still looking into charges against them for that. Long story. Then the other night someone on this board claimed to see myself and another member at a restaurant.




I saw that restaurant thing, it was totally creepy. And I am so sorry for what you are going through with the other situation.
Shorty McBride Posted:

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Posted by nov04LIbride

I stopped posting pics. of myself when a student recognized me.



sorry if that was me!
kim Posted:

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absolutely, you never know who is lurking.

nov04LIbride Posted:

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Posted by shorty the pumpkin


Posted by nov04LIbride

I stopped posting pics. of myself when a student recognized me.



sorry if that was me!



Oh no, no, no shorty! A student I was helping. I just felt it kind of undermined my authority. Besides, I don't consider you a student (though you are!), I consider you a friend!
kdelace Posted:

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i felt i revealed a lot on here with my breakup but then again the same girls on here were there when i got married... i couldnt hold it in and pretend everything was ok and im glad...

Shorty McBride Posted:

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Posted by nov04LIbride


Posted by shorty the pumpkin


Posted by nov04LIbride

I stopped posting pics. of myself when a student recognized me.



sorry if that was me!



Oh no, no, no shorty! A student I was helping. I just felt it kind of undermined my authority. Besides, I don't consider you a student (though you are!), I consider you a friend!




thank you - right back atcha!!!
july06bride Posted:

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I try not to tell too much- but sometimes i do

september2004 Posted:

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Posted by july06bride

I try not to tell too much- but sometimes i do


same here
lilacwine Posted:

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thanks for the reminder. I just went through and removed some of my posts that had tmi.

jantany26 Posted:

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Posted by swags1016

I do especially in light of recent events. In December some former members of this site sent stuff to my house and at the time there were only 3 people that knew where I lived. The goverment is still looking into charges against them for that. Long story. Then the other night someone on this board claimed to see myself and another member at a restaurant.

I very RARELY post pictures on this site anymore. DH will NOT allow me to post pictures of the baby when I have it or when what date I am having it. He will not allow me to post the name or any details of the birth thanks to the above named people. Sad to say people like these and the lurkers take the fun out of the site. It's scary to think about what you put out there.

So with that please be careful what you post. You would be surprised how much info is really available about you on this site.

I hope I am making sense but my feeling are really hurt right now, by something that was said- so just be careful girls!



Oh Jamie, I'm so sorry that you have go throught this. Remember what comes around, goes around.
Jenn524 Posted:

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I try not to post too many private things. You just never know who's out there and although the chances of something happening is slim, I would never be able to live with myself if something did happen.
tonia1001 Posted:

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I think about it, but I don't think I reveal too much-I don't usually discuss work or my personal life...but I've thought about posting some angry work things but have refrained b/c of that reason.

JodiBabe Posted:

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Posted by swags1016

I do especially in light of recent events. In December some former members of this site sent stuff to my house and at the time there were only 3 people that knew where I lived. The goverment is still looking into charges against them for that. Long story. Then the other night someone on this board claimed to see myself and another member at a restaurant.

I very RARELY post pictures on this site anymore. DH will NOT allow me to post pictures of the baby when I have it or when what date I am having it. He will not allow me to post the name or any details of the birth thanks to the above named people. Sad to say people like these and the lurkers take the fun out of the site. It's scary to think about what you put out there.

So with that please be careful what you post. You would be surprised how much info is really available about you on this site.

I hope I am making sense but my feeling are really hurt right now, by something that was said- so just be careful girls!



OMG! What kind of stuff was sent? Well regardless that is scary and very sad that you have have to worry about morons!

How are you feeling?

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