Do you feel like you...

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Jul 22, 2005 09:52 AM

Do you feel like you...

Go through periods where you worry about different things? The other day it was whether I should do OOT bags, today its photography questions. I feel like everyday its something new. But at least I can get my questions answered by you girls! I love LIW! But now I can see how wedding planning can be a bit stressful!

ETA: Oh yeah, and I can't forget the day when I was freaking out about whether to bustle or not for the 1st dance! I'm such a pathetic bride!!

cindyandkevin Posted: Jul 22, 2005 09:55 AM

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Aww, you're not pathetic!! I get like that too sometimes, worry about stuff that's so trivial. We've got time to think about the little things and it'll all come into place. You've just got to prioritize so you stay focused on one task at a time and don't overwhelm yourself.

soontobemrsd325 Posted: Jul 22, 2005 10:11 AM

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Yes, I have different phases with different obsessions. then i take a break and move on to the next, and so on.

SIBride06 Posted: Jul 22, 2005 10:27 AM

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Yes! That is so me. Today Im contemplating on whether I should use a seating scroll or placecaed holders. Yesterday I the conflict was what favors I like. I still have a little over a year until the wedding! When will the madness end??

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Jul 22, 2005 10:29 AM

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I am OBSESSED with paper this week (for my menus and programs) because I got a paper presentation catalog in the mail. Last week it was flowers...
You're not pathetic!! You're just on top of things.

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Jul 22, 2005 11:46 AM

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OMG, thank you girls! I feel so much better that you also have an obsession per week or day like I do. I wonder if it'll get better as time goes on, or worse!

CC59 Posted: Jul 22, 2005 03:57 PM

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I get like that too sometimes and its so weird because I stress out (over nothing really) then I feel so stupid for doing it

CaMacho Posted: Jul 22, 2005 03:59 PM

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Posted by soontobemrsd325

Yes, I have different phases with different obsessions. then i take a break and move on to the next, and so on.

DITTO!

ElegantBride Posted: Jul 22, 2005 04:00 PM

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same here. I jump around on different things on my checklist. The only relief is when they are actually cheked.

johnsae Posted: Jul 22, 2005 04:03 PM

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that totally describes me - you're not alone!

Jennie0898 Posted: Jul 22, 2005 04:56 PM

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That is soooo me!! You are definitely NOT alone!!

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Jul 22, 2005 05:06 PM

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Yes. Right now I am stressing about my dress - that I should have gotten a hallow to hem measurement and its going to be hard to alter.

SweetCin704 Posted: Jul 22, 2005 05:53 PM

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I found myself like that for our eparty & then that night things just go so fast & the little things seem trivial.

About the wedding, I'm stressing re: my make-up. I had 2 trials & I kind of feel, I really like the person I'm booking, but what if there is someone 'better'.

I'm also between 3 dresses & I'm kind of 'scared' to choose one.

We also are still without a band & waiting on the new showcases, but I found out today, 2 of the bands we were going to see on Mon/Tues are booked for our night!!!

I think its all normal for us to stress.

lisad117 Posted: Jul 22, 2005 05:58 PM

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I have a new obsession every week too so don't feel bad. I think its natural. I work with a girl whol is planning her wedding in 4 months and I don't know how she is doing it but in some ways it might be good- less time to obsess....

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Jul 22, 2005 06:00 PM

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Posted by lisad117

I have a new obsession every week too so don't feel bad. I think its natural. I work with a girl whol is planning her wedding in 4 months and I don't know how she is doing it but in some ways it might be good- less time to obsess....

I TOTALLY agree. I think we have so much time that we think of every little detail, and then stress about every little detail.