Do you feel there are people that seem so nice but can't be trusted?

ambersmom Posted: Feb 08, 2005 03:07 PM

Do you feel there are people that seem so nice but can't be trusted?

Like your origninal instinct is that the person is 'nice' but in reality they are a snake?

don424 Posted: Feb 08, 2005 04:45 PM

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ummmmmmmmmmm.........................................................yeah

cocoa Posted: Feb 08, 2005 04:55 PM

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i feel that people think that way about me. i am reallllly nice, but push me and i do get pissed. but there are those people who are never ever genuine and yes, i don't trust them.

ambersmom Posted: Feb 08, 2005 04:59 PM

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Posted by cocoa

i feel that people think that way about me. i am reallllly nice, but push me and i do get pissed. but there are those people who are never ever genuine and yes, i don't trust them.

Me too. If I care about someone, I care ALOT. I'm very black/white and rarely are there shades of grey. I'm also very good at 'feeling' people, if you know what I mean. I think some people must have a hard time wearing both masks sometimes...

beautyq115 Posted: Feb 08, 2005 08:25 PM

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I feel this way about many of the people I work with unfortuntely. Nice to your face but waiting to stab you in the back.

Valentinegirl Posted: Feb 08, 2005 08:52 PM

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Posted by beautyq115

I feel this way about many of the people I work with unfortuntely. Nice to your face but waiting to stab you in the back.

That's everyone at my job too!

RedHead Posted: Feb 08, 2005 09:03 PM

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hmmmm... Well to be honest, i trust a group of people and that is about it...

there are definately people out there who put on the BIG SMILE and then whip out the BIG KNIFE

luvsbob4603 Posted: Feb 08, 2005 09:58 PM

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i am a person who trust's people easily. there are alot of nice people but then there are some people who are not so nice and trustworthy. but what i can say about here is that everyone i have talked to in fm's are really nice and sweet even on the post too. you guys are a expection of trust worthy people and very caring i am glad i know you all.

ckgmwedding Posted: Feb 10, 2005 04:55 PM

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Move to Southern California- EVERYONE acts this way at first. You have to weed out the truly nice from the backstabbers. It took me forever to figure that out as an outspoken, truthful NY girl.

Butterflybride Posted: Feb 10, 2005 05:02 PM

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Yes, there was this girl in school once. Everybody trusted her, because she was incredibly nice to their face, then she'd say stuff behind their back and lie and backstab and when they would confront her, she'd deny it, be super nice and they'd go back to trusting her and the cycle would begin all over. I would never deal with her no matter how nice she was to me.

september2004 Posted: Feb 10, 2005 07:15 PM

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i like to think that i am a pretty good judge of character, however my instincts have been known to lead me astray...

it takes a lot to earn my trust. i initially give people the benefit of the doubt, however i start off pretty guarded. actions speak louder than words, and i 'judge' people not only how they treat me, but how they treat others...