Do you get upset at some No's?

I didn't think I would be that disappointed because we have a huge amount of guests that would have to travel to our wedding. But some people who swore they wouldn't miss it, people I felt were close friends, people I have been there for have now said no and had lame excuses.

I think it's the 'lies' that upset me more. I would rather people just say they aren't coming instead of saying they just can't afford it when they have more money than god. Or that you can't find someone to stay with your kid...hello you have an ex husband. Grrrrrr sorry just had to vent.

I know whoever is meant to be there will be and if I don't make my minimum life will go on.