Do you ladies

allure Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:31 PM

Do you ladies

Think it is crazy that i wanna go to my mothers grave site on my wedding day after i marry i am getting alot of negative feedback on this one people feel it will upset me but i feel it will complete me she has been gone since i am 7 never a day goes by i dont think of her

ChristineC68 Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:34 PM

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I think if it's something you need to do then you should do it. What does your FH say?

WithThisRing Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:34 PM

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you do what makes you happy.

there were some things i wanted to do on my wedding day and some gave me negative feedback and i said wait its my wedding day and if i want to do something that may be a little untraditional or a little morbid, its my wedding day and i want it.

so if you want to go to the cemetary to visit your mom i dont see anything wrong with it.

in fact, i think if you do go, you should leave 1 flower from your bouquet on her grave.

allure Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:35 PM

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He's right there w/me all the way

ChristineC68 Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:37 PM

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Then the heck with everyone else

Chippa - I love the flower idea!

WithThisRing Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:38 PM

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allure Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:38 PM

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chippa i am really crying thank-you for the wonderful idea i love it

WithThisRing Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:39 PM

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tarakinspa Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:40 PM

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Completing you is a pretty bold statement i dont see how you couldnt do it then.

Marcela1654 Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:41 PM

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I don't think it's crazy at all. You need to do what makes you happy. And I love Chippa's idea also. Very sweet

EvenEdan Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:44 PM

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I don't think it is crazy at all. Don't listen to people, they are not in your situation so they cannot understand. Do whatever will make you happy on your wedding day!

allure Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:49 PM

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Thank-you for the quick responses ladies i am going w/my heart i think it is the righht thing to do

junebride04 Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:52 PM

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I think that it is your day and you should do whatever your heart desires.

allure Posted: Jan 28, 2003 11:56 PM

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CHIPP i cant thank you enough for the idea even though i might of left a flower anyway you just have me looking at it in another way by suggesting that idea thank-you again

CutieLipps Posted: Jan 29, 2003 12:05 AM

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I think that is such an absolutely beautiful idea.

kittyke Posted: Jan 29, 2003 07:31 AM

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I also think it is a beautiful idea, and follow your heart, don't let the others tell you what is right and wrong, I think it is very special.

balilove Posted: Jan 29, 2003 07:49 AM

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I agree with the other ladies, I think you should go and when you said 'complete', well that sums it all up. It will be a very special time for you.

renee Posted: Jan 29, 2003 07:59 AM

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You do what makes you happy.

jennbaby Posted: Jan 29, 2003 08:04 AM

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I think your idea is a beautiful one and I also feel it will complete you. I say do it

Sassy Posted: Jan 29, 2003 08:07 AM

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I say DO IT too. I lost my Mother 3 years ago, and I totally want her to be included. I'm doing differrent things that day to incorporate her, but it's very different than actually visiting her. I would like to go before the ceremony, but it's too early. I want to make sure I see her, so I'm going the day before. Do not let anyone discourage you.