if your FH goes out and sees strippers? I, personally, don't. I mean I wouldn't like it all the time, but if it's once in a while, or for a bachelor party, I don't care. He hasn't went to one in the 5 years we've been together, but I don't think i would care.
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I don't care if he goes, which he doesn't. If it was all the time though, we'd have a problem!
PS- I love the 4th choice! Way to include everyone!
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I am a stripper. How else do you think I can afford this wedding extravaganza of a lifetime on a teacher's salary!!!
Honestly, he is a big boy and he can do what he wants. I had two hot male dancers (not strippers) making a 'Leslie Sandwich' right in front of FH and FMIL at my nephew's Bar Mitzvah on Saturday night. I mean HOT DANCERS. They were so hot I could tell what religion they were had I been paying attention. He didnt care so why should I? Would I want him groping someone? No. But he is old enough to make good choices without my a$$ nagging him.
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I don't mind, as long as there's what I would consider to be a vaild reason such as a bachelor party or a going away party for one of his friends being deployed over seas.
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I don't mind at all. I have even gone with him and his friends to a strip club.... hilarious!!!!
esb980
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BUMP!
This is very important and should be on top!!! Right now I am laughing my *** off, at myself!!
I think I'm sooooo funny!!
Fh wants to know why I'm laughing...
Should I tell him it's because I'm an overly tired nut case?!?!?
Goldi1021
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Posted by esb980
BUMP!
This is very important and should be on top!!! Right now I am laughing my *** off, at myself!!
I think I'm sooooo funny!!
Fh wants to know why I'm laughing...
Should I tell him it's because I'm an overly tired nut case?!?!?
Nah, if he is anything like my FH, he will already know you are - just like ME!!!
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hes never gone while with me but I really dont care. I know between his marine friends and his brother his BP will be insane.. good for him.. have fun but dont touch anyone LOL
stephanief
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I don't mind....I have even went with him
Hamptonsbride06
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I dont care, I have offered to go with him, and he has no interest. He even told the guys he doesnt want them for the bachelor party, but I know they will have lots of strippers..thats just the way the guys are
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I don't care....he is old enough to make those decisions himself. He has never been to one b/c he thinks it a waste of money. I wonder if he liked going to them would I care if he went...lol
Probably not....he has proven to me many times that he wants to be with me, so I am not worried about strippers.
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I have to say that I do care....I think they are trashy both male and female strippers. It would make me upset if he had some tramp grining herself all over him
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FH really doesnt go and when he does, as his friend ratted him out.. he won't look at the girls much!! his friend bought him a lap dance and his friend told me he is so whipped he stared at the floor the whole time and wouldnt look at her!!!..
maybe he really liked her feet
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I change my vote... I voted NO WAY, NEVER before I read the rest of the question. (sorry, blonde moment). NO WAY, NEVER is strippers for me! I could care less about strippers for FH. I know he's not really interested in that kind of thing, so if his guys took him out for some good clean naked girls I wouldn't have a problem with it at all!!
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I do not care at all. How can looking be wrong -and I know he would never do anything so...have fun looking at the boobies...
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Don't mind at all! In my FH job, he deals with all the clubs, restaurants & strip clubs in NYC, so I am use to him being there on a daily basis (usually the girls aren't around)...He is an adult & knows right from wrong! As my FH always says, that stripper is someone's daughter, wife, sister, girlfriend or FW!!!!
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my fh carries hand sanitizer with him wherever he goes. he has ocd about germs. he thinks strippers are germy, nasty hoes and a gross fanstasy. he doesnt even like going. therefore, i dont care if he goes at all. i know he thinks its stupid anyway.
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I trust FH completely so I don't really care if he wants to go to a strip club with his friends. He's not really into that scene so IF he wanted to go, no problem!
leese
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funny cause i was just talking about this... i had a little 'bridal moment' about it.
i have never ever cared.
but now that we are engaged...i got a little 'bridal hormonal' and was like... 'three weeks before our wedding!!!'
it was totally unlike me and i'm ashamed a bit that i felt that way.
but all i ask is that he respect ME and our marriage. no sweatpants. and no 'back-room' dances.
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dh doesn't really go to them. he went to a strip club for us bachelor party. once in a blue moon is ok. i think its a trust issue. my sister has a friend, when the husband goes, she's very jealous. when my dh came home from his bachelor party, he said that club isn't what they used to be. he said it shows what he has waiting at home...something a whole lot better than what's at a strip club
