Do you mind...

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Posted by Preshy7

my fh carries hand sanitizer with him wherever he goes. he has ocd about germs.
he thinks strippers are germy, nasty hoes and a gross fanstasy. he doesnt even like going.
therefore, i dont care if he goes at all. i know he thinks its stupid anyway.

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germy, nasty hoes - so good

i went with fh once and he went once for someones bach party...if he was going all the time it would be a problem

i don't care.. my FH has never gone to one since i'm with him.. his friends have gone.. asked him to go and he chooses not to (smart boy) ...but seriously.. i tell him just as a reminder if you can do it i can do it too...

try that one if you don't want you FH to go

But for his BP i told him i'm gettin him three big booby strippers

I reall don't mind at all. We've been together 3 and 1/2 years and he's gone once, back in May for my cousin's bachelor party. He even told me all about it, he even got a lap dance. He said he sat on his hands the whole time.

I wouldn't condone it all the time, but for special occassion why not?

Plus I strip for him all the time!!! That's nothing new for him.

jake doesn't really like them- if he goes to the 'tits' as him and his freinds call the clubs- he ususally makes fun of them w/o them knowing it- one of them will pretend to be gay or sick - or a virgin

he loves to hear the story of why they are dong this - like grad school- or they have so much money and buy a house a week or something

but he has some friends who can walk into any club on LI and it's like walking into Cheers- everyone knows there name- how sad

My fiance has no interest in it anymore. Although he has taken me a few times just so I could see what it was like. I thought it would be such a sexy atmosphere, but it was so cheesy. I was like - I am so much sexier than all of these girls combined! I give a much better lap dance than any stripper any day!

I can definately say that I would mind if my FI and his friends went to a strip club or any place that had strippers. We have discussed it and he does not want a B party at all. Hes not into it.
What I dont get is this right of passage called the last nite of freedom. I would honestly feel that my FI gave up his last nite of freedom when were dating and he asked me to be his g/f. I do not approve of him getting to see other girls topless or full nude. what is the purpose of this tradition. IMO to view a girl naked in person is cheating...to look at another girls p*ssy up close is cheating. looking on tv to me is completely different but when there is a live nude/topless girl in front of a man to me its cheating.
obviously i think lapdances are cheating.
I know i am a minority on this board as most of you think its fine for ur men to go and get strippers. I admire that but where do u draw the line, cause when their friends get married down the road, they had their last nite why should they get to go again...i feel i am putting my foot down with saying no!

Alot of celebs are doing the combined B-party
This is something I would consider...taking the both sides of the bridal party out...I know another couple who did this when they had their wedding in italy it was a joint celebration.

These is my feelings...not to cause controversy at all
Thanks

i dont really care if he goes b/c i trust him hes not into giving the money or getting all into it he really just goes to be a man with his friends

My FH doesn't really care for them he thinks they are sl#ts...

He has gone in the past with his friends and it's a big joke because if they come up to him he's rude...

I don't care if he goes occasional to hangout with his friends or a B-party, he doesn't want anything to do with them and I trust he wouldn't do anything that I would be mad about.

Sometimes you just want to hangout with friends and have a good time if that happens to be where his friends are going..go ahead...

If my friends were going to a guy strip place I wouldn't want him to tell me I can't go, even know I don't care for them I probably would still want to go to hangout with all my girls!!

I give all you guys credit...

I just don't get why guys who are married, engaged, or serious with someone would want to see someone else naked. I hold my body in the highest regard, and would not be comfortable being naked around strangers, i feel its a very personal thing...single guys can do waht they want, but men who are taken are off the market, should respect that its totally not necessary to hang out with friends that need to go where nude women will be...

I am glad i am not faced with this issue, FI said he wants to work for his bachelor party(he has is own company) and he wants everyone to work for free...for the weekend...hes a workaholic. Not sure how thats going to go over, he may be the only one at his office.

I would never want to go to a male strip club and i have had friends that have gone and i declined, i will wait till they are doing something more appropriate to join them. Maybe i am old fashioned. I dunno, I just feel that some traditions are not traditions
It seems like the whole thing with the church and how holy and sacred things are to throw in strippers just seems to devaluate the whole marriage concept to me.
maybe they should be ammended in some way... I know i must have some supporters who feel the way i do.