We live together and spend every single night together and sometimes I just feel like if we had some time apart we'd get along better sometimes. Am I crazy or would you feel this way to? ETA: Don't get me wrong, we get along, but sometimes I am afraid of it getting, I don't know stale. Just because we never do things without one another.
TimDogsGal
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We see eachother everyday.....we have been living together for almost 2 years....we have our fights but for the most part we get along preatty well...
leese
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We are married and I don't see him everyday. We don't 'sleep' at night together four nights a week, due to his schedule. There are times (like today) that we won't lay eyes on each other.
I am mixed about it. We went 4 years of long-distance dating so we are getting used to seeing each other more. But I really feel that you do need ALONE time. Whether it's going out with your girlfriends or doing something with mom/dad/etc. alone, it's a good thing.
CLMon7906
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yes we do...but not a lot...our schedules and commutes are hectic so we see very little of each other.
Soon2bMrsERH
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We haved lived together a year now. We have lived in the house that we are buying since January. I can't imagine not having him to sleep with at night. It's wonderful. But not seeing him sometimes is nice too...I don't want to be with him every second.
AMGBride2008
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FH & I live together and don't get me wrong, we've had out moments! Luckily when we feel we need a break I'm able to go hang out at my parent's house for a few hours. He's from upstate NY so he doesn't have that same luxury, but I do love when he gets a chance to get home... it gives us some time apart but I usually miss him and want him to come back as soon as he walks out the door. I love him!
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I feek the same as most girls here do , We live 2gether & I do see him everyday, sometimes he gets on my nerves , but sometimes i get on my own nerves, LOL so for the most part we do get along,, I wouldnt have it any other wya
DandS
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FH & I do not see each other everyday . We have a house together, but I am not moving in until after the wedding. We do not see each other everyday, but we do talk on the phone everyday. It is hard not seeing each other everyday because we really do miss each other a lot, but once we get married we see each other every day .
Katie&Chris2006
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Yes, we live together. And because I don't have a parking permit, he drops me off and picks me up every day at the train station.
kcion
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You're not crazy - some time apart is good. My FH is FDNY so when he works overnight it gives me some time on my own. We BOTH appreciate it.
Maybe plan a dinner or a movie with one of your girlfriends or something. He may not understand at first but I am sure he'll appreciate the alone time too AND it will make him realize how much he enjoys being with you
ali120206
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We live together and don't see each other a lot. He's in the FDNY as well and he works a lot of nights. He also goes away on small trips a lot. I try to plan my things around his work schedule but, it is subject to change (and that it does!).
I do like the time to myself to an extent (a night here or there) to get to bed a little earlier and get a few things done. When he's gone for too long though I really start to miss him!
TheFutureMrsM
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we have been living together for over 2 years now and I joined him at his office in last fall. So we see eachother everyday all day long sometimes. I think its the best thing every to live and work together. Its even better because when we want to plan getaways or vacations we have no one to answer to! he owns the company!!
SeptBride70
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yes yes yes we see each other every day and i think we have only spent ONE night apart from each other since we have met-- it's not something that we go out of our way to do or anything, it just happens.
i don't worry about it getting stale but we do get to the point that we are so used to being around each other-- we'll get so busy with wedding stuff or whatever and realize that we've been together for three hours and haven't just kissed each other once... that's the thing that bothers us-- that we like, take advantage of how much we see each other and don't appreciate it as much.
so we go out of our way to have 'special' time and stuff-- also, i relish nights where i go out and am out when i'm normally home and vice-versa. b/c then when we are together it's so much more 'exciting' b/c i haven't seen him in a longer time period than i'm used to... maybe if you feel that way sometimes try to go out or spend some time apart like day trips or whatever and then you'll notice how much he misses you!! lol i went to a BS last weekend and i was only gone for six hours and when i came home he was like omg i missed you hahah
