Do you send invitations to your future in laws

Brooklynbride Posted: May 26, 2008 09:53 PM

Do you send invitations to your future in laws

I was just wondering. My Future mother in law and sisters in law are very much involved in the wedding preparations. Do I still have to send them an invitation.

Also, do you send an invite to your maid of honor and bridesmaid??

What about my mother, step-dad and brother? Both my stepdad and brother are walking me down the aisle.

JozyLee123 Posted: May 26, 2008 09:55 PM

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yes! you send one to everyone who is invited!

cds58019 Posted: May 26, 2008 09:55 PM

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I did. I even mailed one to my parents...who I still live with!! It was still exciting for them to get!

amandah75 Posted: May 26, 2008 09:55 PM

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I was in my brothers wedding and they still sent me one. thought it was nice of them. also, a lot of people use the invite for creative gifts or in frames. I say send them one.

lucamon Posted: May 26, 2008 09:56 PM

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Yes, yes, yes and yes.
I was very annoyed with my SIL because she didn't send me an invite. I mean, she wasn't short on invitations or anything but her reasoning was that we all knew that I'm coming to the wedding so why waste the postage?
Grrr... I don't even have one for keepsake.

Brooklynbride Posted: May 26, 2008 09:57 PM

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Thanks ladies

hayleyandsteve Posted: May 26, 2008 10:03 PM

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yes of course!

they'll at least want to keep them for their sentimental value!

PegaLega Posted: May 26, 2008 10:09 PM

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Yes, you send on to everyone that is invited including those that know about it already, have already told you they are coming and family.

MKEA98 Posted: May 26, 2008 10:13 PM

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Yeah you def send one, even though they obviously know about it, will be coming, etc. I like to keep the invites for my photo albums, so people def want them for keepsakes. Even if they don't want it, I think you're still supposed to send one.

LeeLee111 Posted: May 26, 2008 10:20 PM

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Everyone gets one.

Aug07OFCbride Posted: May 26, 2008 10:31 PM

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yes to all. some close fam may want to save it too.

bluegreen08 Posted: May 26, 2008 11:19 PM

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yes, you send to everyone! those closest to you will probably save them or should at least have the option

the only people we didnt 'send' invites to were my parents. we had an envelope done up for them and put together a full invitation but since it's $1 to mail each one and they didnt really care, we just kept it in the house. if they decide they want it postmarked we can always do that this week but they are fine with having their own unmailed copy.

DavaDay Posted: May 26, 2008 11:26 PM

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Yes! I even sent one to myself! (for the scrapbook, but still... )

nycgirl79 Posted: May 27, 2008 03:07 AM

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Yup - we sent invitations to everyone!

missexcited Posted: May 27, 2008 06:45 AM

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my SIL who is also MOH told me not to sen dher one, but I am sending to everyone...the inlaws, parents and all BP

jaep129 Posted: May 27, 2008 08:27 AM

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Of course. Even people you know who are not coming. The only people who dont get an initation is you and FH. You prob could even send one to your self if you wanted!