i should put black tie optional on my invites?? its a late sat night wedding. its literally only close fam and friends that are invited. i feel like they all know to dress nicely bc all my aunts want to wear gowns and uncles know to dress nice. also, 90% of our friends that are invited are in the bridal party. my mom said its not necessary. what do you think??
I don't think it's necessary if you know all your guests are planning on dressing nice. I never knew this, but according to I think Emily Post, it is against ettiquete to do this b/c you are like telling your guests what to wear. If though, you think some guests may not understand the formality of your occasion, then add it.
Posted by megsher
I don't think it's necessary if you know all your guests are planning on dressing nice. I never knew this, but according to I think Emily Post, it is against ettiquete to do this b/c you are like telling your guests what to wear. If though, you think some guests may not understand the formality of your occasion, then add it.
I don't think you have to.
If the people that you are inviting usually dress nice anyway then I wouldn't put it in. I would only include it if I were worried about how many of the people would dress
i don't think it's necessary. i doubt anyone will be in jeans the day of your wedding!
