Do you think she is being childish

WithThisRing Posted: Jul 11, 2003 07:45 PM

Do you think she is being childish

I was talking to a friend of mine a few days ago about my e-party. She asked me if I am talking to a girl christina. I said yes I am, I just spoke to her last night. My friend asked me if I invited her to the party. I said yes she got her invite but she hasnt responded. My friend said 'oh boy then you better have a talk with her because she just sent out an email inviting a whole list of friends including some you invited to your party for a BBQ at her place the same exact day and time as your e-party. I didnt see your name on the list and I figured you and her had a falling out'

I told my friend she is doing this on purpose. My friend asked what I meant. I said she is mad that I didnt ask her to be a BM, I asked another sorority sister to be a BM, and I wouldnt let her plan my wedding. She is mad and this is her way of getting back at me.

My friend said that is really wrong and extremely childish. I agreed.

What do you ladies think??

I am too a point I am just going to wash my hands of this girl. If she wants to plan her little BBQ same day and time as my party then she can have it, I have friends and family who are excited for me regardless.

yabbobay Posted: Jul 11, 2003 07:48 PM

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looks like you made a good decision about your BMs....

maybe its jealousy...maybe you should talk to her...and tell that you are hurt by what she did(thats always one that kicks the person in the balls)

have the other friends responded yes?

daisybride Posted: Jul 11, 2003 07:52 PM

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childish is putting it nicely. Good thing you didn't pick her as your BM

WithThisRing Posted: Jul 11, 2003 07:54 PM

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thanks.

I did send her an email that said 'hey mom is a little dense with the RSVP, can you do me a favor and please respond ASAP'

and she read it but never responded to the email or to the party.

Friends that were on her list and that I invited I spoke to and a few said they are going to let me know next week because some have work or their dates have work and they are finding out if they can take off. A few others have RSVPed already.

I thought maybe she forgot or got her days mixed up so I used the email as the reminder.

I tried to talk to her once and she seemed fine afterwards, but I think she still has this jealousy stored up.

WithThisRing Posted: Jul 11, 2003 07:54 PM

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Thanks Daisy

MarcellaBella Posted: Jul 11, 2003 09:17 PM

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WHAT A BIT*H CHIP!! I can't believe some people..

but you knowwhat? you don't need her and thank god you saw her true colors now rather than later!

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 11, 2003 09:20 PM

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Sorry about this Chip..... I think you should wash your hands of it... she is obviously not on your side & even worse working against you . Regardless of the fact that she is not in the BP, she should still be a true friend & understand your decision.

WithThisRing Posted: Jul 11, 2003 09:34 PM

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Thanks girls. I am glad I have all of you on my side

MarciaD Posted: Jul 11, 2003 09:38 PM

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Wow, as the old expression goes, 'with friends like that you don't need enemies'!

She is more than childish she is being a manipulative back-stabber... The definitely proves you picked the right BM's....

Jen_n_Dale Posted: Jul 11, 2003 10:24 PM

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Chippa consider 2 less people at the wedding. You just saved yourself some cash. With friends like that, who needs enemies.

WithThisRing Posted: Jul 11, 2003 10:28 PM

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LOL Jenn, brian said the same thing.

thanks

Sunny Posted: Jul 11, 2003 10:41 PM

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Yes, she is extremely childish. Don't let her petty behavior bother you!

KathleenG Posted: Jul 11, 2003 10:46 PM

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I agree. And I would be hurt also! Just don't let her ruin YOUR TIME! This is one of the most important times of your life!

shigrl517 Posted: Jul 11, 2003 10:46 PM

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That is childish, if it's the reason she's doing it.

As for the guest list, if they're your true friends, they'll put your e-party before her BBQ (it's a little more important).

Imagin916 Posted: Jul 11, 2003 11:02 PM

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I agree. If someone decided to go to the BBQ instead of your party, than I guess you will need to cut them off your wedding list! This is the time when you will see who your real friends are. I cant believe this 'friend' would do this to you! F@ck her I say!

WithThisRing Posted: Jul 11, 2003 11:39 PM

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Thanks girls. I was bothering me for a couple of days and I just had to get it out. I am doing better now and I just cant believe her actions.

You girls are right, after this party it will determine my guest list for the wedding