Do you think this is disrespectful?

lookitscassie Posted: Oct 23, 2007 11:47 AM

Do you think this is disrespectful?

So my dad is really sick w/ Cancer & they are only giving him a few weeks. I know realisiticly that he wont be at the wedding. Im praying for miricle but am being real.

So my aunt died 2 weeks ago (also of cancer) I am very very close with my uncle and was with my aunt. They had all boys. I've been thinking that if my dad does pass, i would have my uncle give me away. he has no girs, never got to do it, and he is the closest thing to a dad i will have.

I was debating on my brothers, but they will part of my bridal party. I was thinking maybe my mom and my uncle. or just my uncle. i dunno

any opinions?

ellyoxox Posted: Oct 23, 2007 11:54 AM

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first off, i'm sorry about your father. i will that he will be able to be at your wedding.

i don't think that is disrespectful at all. i'm sure your uncle would be honored to do it!! having your mom and your uncle is a nice idea as well.

xBrunette Posted: Oct 23, 2007 12:01 PM

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Posted by ellyoxox

first off, i'm sorry about your father. i will that he will be able to be at your wedding.

i don't think that is disrespectful at all. i'm sure your uncle would be honored to do it!! having your mom and your uncle is a nice idea as well.

i have to agree with her.... i'm sorry about your father.. i hoke a mirical does come your way

Cinigs917 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 12:02 PM

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I am so sorry about your father! I will pray for him! but godforbid you do need your uncle....i think it would be such a great honor for him and its such a nice thing to do.... ill be praying for you.

Jflod710 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 12:03 PM

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You should have your mom and uncle!!

lookitscassie Posted: Oct 23, 2007 12:17 PM

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thanks guys. i just dont want to offend anyone by asking my uncle and not anyone else.

kabo0831 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 12:39 PM

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im sorry to hear about you dad, i dont think that it will be disrespectful because i think he will be honored if you asked you uncle.

Ill for your dad

CMS Posted: Oct 23, 2007 01:01 PM

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First of all, I'm very sorry about your dad. I will keep him and your entire family in my prayers.

I think it would be beautiful for you to ask your uncle to walk you down the aisle with your mom. Your said your brothers will be in the bridal party, so everyone will be involved.

I think your dad would love it!

lookitscassie Posted: Oct 23, 2007 01:06 PM

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i think my dad would think its a good idea.

the only thing is. My mom has 2 sisters. My Aunt who just passed and another sister who lives next door to my aunt.

My uncle that i am going to ask, was/is married to my aunt that just passed. I am very close with him. he has been around my whole life.

my other aunt has been married for 12 years and the guy is a complete jackasss. i have never and will never be close to him. I dont want my aunt to be upset thati dont ask her husband

JKFris09 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 02:03 PM

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First I'm sorry about your dad and I'm praying for him.

Secondly a friend of mine who's father passed away before her wedding had her mother & brother give her away. I think what someone else said about your mother and uncle is a very nice idea too. I honestly think you should wait and see what happens and how you feel. In the end you may only want your mother to be with you or your brothers.

SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 02:19 PM

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Posted by ellyoxox

first off, i'm sorry about your father. i will that he will be able to be at your wedding.

i don't think that is disrespectful at all. i'm sure your uncle would be honored to do it!! having your mom and your uncle is a nice idea as well.

totally agree! I hope for your sake that your Dad is at your wedding, but I'm sure your uncle would be priveleged to do it if that's what it comes down too

Ms SunnShinne Posted: Oct 23, 2007 03:21 PM

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I'm sorry for what u have been thru with ur Aunt and u are currently going thru with ur father...I know how it is to lose a father...and quite Honestly I pray that God grants u the miracle ur asking for.

But God forbid ur father does not make it to ur wedding...i think it would be beautiful to grant ur uncle the opportunity to walk u down the aisle since ur brothers are already in the wedding party I feel that it would be beautiful to do that!

God Bless

little34 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 05:14 PM

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First off sooo sorry about your daddy!!!

I think it is a great idea and I am sure your dad will be happy!!

My heart goes out to you and your family!!!

tinadansr Posted: Oct 23, 2007 05:24 PM

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Hope your dad gets well............

I think it's a great idea

MzHopesAlot Posted: Oct 23, 2007 05:43 PM

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THAT IS FARR from disrespectful!! That is a beautiful thought. My real dad(moms been divorced and remarried since I was 5) died when I was 10 of cancer (pancreatic) so I know where youre comming from. I'm going to have my uncle and step dad.
Sorry about your dad... I really do know where your comming from though <3