I do! If we wouldn't lose so much $ I think I could convince FH to do it. I am so not into the following:
wearing a white dress - I am not neat and tidy! I will stain it!
being the center of attention - I'd rather host a party for someone else
making my bridal party go through another wedding when I know they are sick of them
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All the time!!! I don't know if I can handle being the center of attention either. I was at church yesterday, and it started to freak me out that at our wedding we will be up on the altar with everybody watching us.
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I was just saying to my FH yesterday that we should go to Hawaii a bit earlier and just get married there. There has been a lot of stress and arguments (between me and my family) over the stupidest things. But we've already spent way too much, so there's no going back. Although I am looking forward to the day, the whole planning process is driving me crazy.
wenndypoo
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Oh, all the time! It would've been so much easier!
sams
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EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!
SandraLynn
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Yes, I daydream about it....and I have the same fear!!!! All those eyes on us! ohno
hbradio
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YES YES YES YES and YES!!!!!!
Stacey04
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I don't like being the center of attention, but lately all I can daydream about is me wearing my beautiful wedding gown and dancing with my HUSBAND!!!!
cocoa
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yes, especially lately, b/c we wonder why the heck we planned this wedding when we really should have focused our attention and money on an apartment.
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Posted by bridzilla
There has been a lot of stress and arguments (between me and my family) over the stupidest things. But we've already spent way too much, so there's no going back.
Me too!!!! My family is driving me crazy!!! I am not going to want to talk to half of them after this wedding. I just realized yesterday that we aren't going to make our minimum. I was so upset. Every single step we take has been a problem. It's too late to stop now but, I wish I wouldn't have done it in the first place!
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to you all
And people thought Jim & I were nuts for doing the town hall thing Oct 23 2003.
I have to admit its less stressful. I mean push comes to shove we'll postpone our 'wedding'. I mean who cares? We're already married.
But this is my day.. I really want it. My parents do too. (even tho they aint paying for it) So Im gonna have it. I only get to go through this once. You know?
I want those memories to pass down. Just like the goofy memories we have of our civil ceremony.
Hang in there!!!
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I'd love to elope! We discuss it all the time! I have fantasies of going to Key West w/ our daughter and marrying on a beach there. That way we could combine the ceremony and honeymoon!
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I want to but he doesnt want to lose any money. Also, he wants me to have my day so he wont hear it 20yrsd from now.
wc0143
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If it wasn't for wanting to wear the dress & having the first dance, I could definitely have gone for eloping.
But as un-girly as I am, I guess I've always dreamed of the dress.
Would soooo have preferred hitting the lottery and splurging for a Disney wedding and letting them plan everything!!! lol!
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Yes the moments of craziness are dancing through my head right now! My office is 5 mintues from LGA right now and 15 min from JFK but the FH is back on the island working! damn damn damn!
nan&dave
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Definetly.
Chloegirl
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NEVER!! Don't get me wrong, the planning is getting tedious...especially now that its so close....but I really can't wait for our big day and wouldnt change a thing we have done in preparation.
