does anyone else....

Original post by ttdiff11

Oct 10, 2008 11:12 AM

get really upset when they think about losing their last name??? i feel like my last name is such a big part of who i am!
i feel like i would be disrespectful if i didnt change my last name, but i was thinking of making it a second middle name. can i do that?? do u think thats a bad idea???

lila Posted: Oct 10, 2008 11:46 PM

Re: does anyone else....

I've been married just under 2 months and I'm still deciding.

I'm now Mrs. S, but I dont know if I will be Jennifer Amy S. or Jennifer (Maiden) S.

I was set on making my maiden name my middle name, then I changed my mind again. I keep changing it back and forth on facebook for practice. We'll see -- DH doesnt care, he wanted me to take his name but said other than that to do whatever makes me happy.

I have friends who have done all kinds of combos...

First Middle Married
First Maiden Married
First Middle Maiden Married

Just do what makes you happy. I just wish I knew what that was!

ttdiff11 Posted: Oct 10, 2008 11:48 PM

Re: does anyone else....

Posted by lila

I've been married just under 2 months and I'm still deciding.

I'm now Mrs. S, but I dont know if I will be Jennifer Amy S. or Jennifer (Maiden) S.

I was set on making my maiden name my middle name, then I changed my mind again. I keep changing it back and forth on facebook for practice. We'll see -- DH doesnt care, he wanted me to take his name but said other than that to do whatever makes me happy.

I have friends who have done all kinds of combos...

First Middle Married
First Maiden Married
First Middle Maiden Married

Just do what makes you happy. I just wish I knew what that was!

aww thanks 4 the advice