I feel absolutely dreadful today. I am so down in the dumps and stressed!! I was up all night worrying about the cost of the wedding and all the little details;I worried myself sick!! Nothing in particular happened to make things worse today. Whats worse, I have been having trouble getting in touch with FH (he is my support system). He has been busy all day. I am like a nervous wreck. Will this pass soon? I have never once in the whole planning process have allowed myself to get like this!!
Julestrd
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I have felt the same way since last week. This whole money issues is killing me since my parents haven't given me what they have promised for 9 months now. I hope you get in touch with your FH soon. If not you have these girls to help you though
SandraLynn
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There are nights I loose sleep, I over worry and stress out...then I stress over details...It's normal I think..take a few deep breathes and focus on something else for a while. We went away this weekend and I feel like a new person today, sometimes you just need to take a mental brake from it all. Feel better.
hbradio
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I have them very often - $$$$ for the wedding keeps me up every night.
TwoBugs
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I've had MONTHS like this! But you have to remember that it WILL pass.
Rae912
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I am right there with you! The only thing my dad asked is for me to get married in church. I went to meet with the priest last week for the first time. Before me and my FH left my house I freaked. I was so worried he was going to say no to us. I said to my FH, do you even know my favorite color? he laughed because he knew I was being rediculous, but then I cried. What Ive realized through this and other times I feel stressed and awful is if you have no control over something you CANT stress it. and you cant stress about things so much it makes you sick. Relax and smile. Think of a food that makes you happy (for me its a strawberry milkshake)and go eat it Feel better
september2004
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of course! it's totally normal...
i freak here and there, but keep myself in check with the budget. skip the costly little details, focus on the big picture. try to have fun with it, all of this will be over before you know it!
FLaCaTaCa
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Awwwww, I go through it sometimes too!!!
Keep your head up Girl....you are going to wear a beautiful dress and be married to your FH!!!!!!!!! Just think happy thoughts!!!
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You 're definitley not alone. I've been having major anxiety over the wedding for the past couple of weeks, but I'm just now starting to snap out of it. It will pass. Just give in to it for a while, be the crazy lunatic that you don't want to be. Get it out of your system and move on.
KathleenG
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Thanks ladies for all the well wishes!! I feel better knowing I am not alone!!
Pookiesangel
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I have my moments, but for me it's still early in the process. FH is more of the worryer in our family to be, he stresses about it all the time, because of that I feel its my job to keep upbeat and positive.
I usually get down about how long we have to wait, and what will happen after the wedding. Money does worry me, but I try my best to keep everything in prospective..
Yes it's alot of money to spend on one day in your life, but as my granny always says, anything worth having never comes easy...
Just try to relax and know these feeling will pass..
