Does anyone ever have the fear...

Original post by coldasice217

Jan 06, 2009 09:11 PM

That FH will HATE your dress???

I don't know why, but lately I've completely convinced myself that FH is going to hate it. Or maybe not hate it...but just think I didn't put an effort into it. Like it's not 'bride'-y enough, and he gets sensitive sometimes about things like that, like I don't care about him. So instead of picturing him loving it...I'm just picturing disappointment, like oh, this is the best you could come up with?

Or have I just swallowed one too many eye drops lately?

I've finally reconvinced myself that I like my dress, so now I have to go off the deep end worrying about HIM.

FinallyMrsB18 Posted: Jan 06, 2009 11:15 PM

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it is white and gorgeous what could be more bridey? you are so going to take his breath away (sorry to sound super cheesy) he is going to be in awe of you as you walk down the aisle...he will love love love it :)
and yes i worry too....he hated my make up trial lol said i looked like a pirate (pics in wedding stuff album i beg to differ)

coldasice217 Posted: Jan 06, 2009 11:18 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsB18

it is white and gorgeous what could be more bridey? you are so going to take his breath away (sorry to sound super cheesy) he is going to be in awe of you as you walk down the aisle...he will love love love it :)
and yes i worry too....he hated my make up trial lol said i looked like a pirate (pics in wedding stuff album i beg to differ)

Well, if you look like a pirate, then you're a very pretty one! Great job with the makeup, it's really nice.

elysemichelle Posted: Jan 06, 2009 11:22 PM

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Posted by flairforfashion

Your dress is really beautiful and he will love it!!!!!!!!

ITA!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont stress or worry

allegracristina Posted: Jan 06, 2009 11:51 PM

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NO WAY!! Your dress is beautiful, and makes you ABSOLUTELY GLOW RADIANT BRIDE!! You always say it's not 'bride-y' but, it really is! And you shine in it. Loves it girl, go get it!!

FutureMrsC614 Posted: Jan 07, 2009 12:05 AM

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my dear, you could be wearing a garbage bag, and I'm sure he will cry when you walk down the aisle. He will still be madly in love and the most happiest of his life, because he will be marrying his soul mate :)

ps: you will be beautiful in your dress :)

missjones2007 Posted: Jan 07, 2009 12:33 AM

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dont you worry bout that...he is going to adore u on that day!

MrsInglima Posted: Jan 07, 2009 06:35 AM

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I'm not worried. I think as long as you think you look great he will think the same.

bride2binli Posted: Jan 07, 2009 07:39 AM

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um my dress comes in a month and I have fear I am going to hate it myself I come to think we all go threw these fears he will love it dont be silly

sharivera Posted: Jan 07, 2009 07:40 AM

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FH will llove your dress!! don't worry!!

I am lucky my FH knows NOTHING about fashion or how a bride should look... and he's crazy..he thinks i look sexy in my holey sweats and his HUGE sweatshirts....oh well to each his own! LOL

Suzanner Posted: Jan 07, 2009 08:24 AM

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Posted by coldasice217

Or have I just swallowed one too many eye drops lately?

I'm sure he'll love it!!

I understand this, though. When I was first looking for dresses, I thought he would love a certain type. Then I showed him the pics, and I was TOTALLY wrong.

To tell you the truth, I showed him a pic of the sketch of my dress to see if he would despise it. He seemed happy.

I know, I know, bad luck, but we're seeing each other before the ceremony anyway, so I figure, I've already blown it.

COLDASICE- Post a pic of your dress!! I don't remember what it looks like!

PoppedInASnap Posted: Jan 07, 2009 08:40 AM

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um fh already saw mine in a magazine and didnt like it...it was 'too beady'

oh well

Ms2Mrs09 Posted: Jan 07, 2009 09:08 AM

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You will look beautiful and he will be completely smitten.

BlueEyes Posted: Jan 07, 2009 09:14 AM

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umm you look gorgeous in that dress. have no fear, please!

KerriJohnS Posted: Jan 07, 2009 09:26 AM

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I'm sure he will love it.

Personally I think I have more of a fear that the dress will look good in person but in pictures.

Take comfort in knowing that you are not the only bride with concerns about picking 'The Right Dress'.