does anyone feel like they need to have everything

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:50 PM

does anyone feel like they need to have everything

at there wedding - like all the littile touches

fh is about to kill me - after going to the wedding last night i feel like 'i need to have' napkins

we cant even afford the people we are having and im worried about buying napkins

Clover23 Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:51 PM

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you don't need to have napkins - you will be just fine without them. and yes i know how u feel - i have to resist the urges all the time!

grkbarbie Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:52 PM

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ehhh .. i had personalized napkins at my bridal shower.. no1 said anything... i doubt ppl will sayanything for the wedding. lol

asg450 Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:53 PM

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I feel like that sometimes but then I remember everything costs money and we need to pay for other things.

FallBride2010 Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:54 PM

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Yes! Just last night I was telling FH that I want everything...so I dont have one regret when it's all over. But I also realize that in the grand scheme of life...all these little details will go unnoticed by most.

I say skip the napkins and save the money for something else you must have : )

soonT0beMrsD Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:54 PM

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yes and its becoming overwhelming !!

Windy Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:55 PM

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I especially feel that way when I watch platinum weddings! lol

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:56 PM

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Posted by FallBride2010

Yes! Just last night I was telling FH that I want everything...so I dont have one regret when it's all over. But I also realize that in the grand scheme of life...all these little details will go unnoticed by most.

I say skip the napkins and save the money for something else you must have : )

thats so funny thats what i told him - i know no one notices but i want to know i had it all

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:56 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

ehhh .. i had personalized napkins at my bridal shower.. no1 said anything... i doubt ppl will sayanything for the wedding. lol

i dont remember i must have not got one

danieanderic Posted: Feb 15, 2010 08:58 PM

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I know what you mean, but just remember: you already have everything you need. You have the perfect man for you, and that man will last so much longer than your napkins or anything else you have the wedding. That always helps me when I get worried about about think I need everything. Hope that helps!

Lucky2010 Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:01 PM

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Yes, all the time. Especially reading blogs or this web-site... it gives me so many ideas! But all those ideas cost money.

lissylissa Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:06 PM

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O yes since i joined this site and read about different things you girls are having im like hmmm i need that too lol

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:19 PM

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Yes! Napkins and Matchbooks, and all sorts of little things. Oh, and personalized menus.

Like, now I feel like I need to have the L O V E letters Melissa had on her cake table.

I haven't given into the Channa plaque though... and thankfully at this point it's probably too late.

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:20 PM

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Yes! Napkins and Matchbooks, and all sorts of little things. Oh, and personalized menus.

Like, now I feel like I need to have the L O V E letters Melissa had on her cake table.

I haven't given into the Channa plaque though... and thankfully at this point it's probably too late.

yeah i just had to do the menus table numbers and i just ordered my plaque the other day

GR2010 Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:22 PM

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I mentioned napkins to FH and I thought he was going to stab me.

But your Fh has a point... I'm looking at my guest list and starting to worry that we're going to have more people than we thought so if not buying napkins pays for one more person I guess I'll do without them...

soontobecruz Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:23 PM

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YES!!! I try and resist and then the idea sticks in my head and I can't help it!!!

I am a wedding shopoholic!!!!!

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:23 PM

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

I mentioned napkins to FH and I thought he was going to stab me.

But your Fh has a point... I'm looking at my guest list and starting to worry that we're going to have more people than we thought so if not buying napkins pays for one more person I guess I'll do without them...

yup that is our problem - nooo onee has said no - but it is our fault we only budgeted for our minimum which was 150

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:23 PM

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Posted by RitasEngaged

Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Yes! Napkins and Matchbooks, and all sorts of little things. Oh, and personalized menus.

Like, now I feel like I need to have the L O V E letters Melissa had on her cake table.

I haven't given into the Channa plaque though... and thankfully at this point it's probably too late.

yeah i just had to do the menus table numbers and i just ordered my plaque the other day

Man you mean its NOT too late?! Don't tell me that!

mariedsgn Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:24 PM

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YES!!!!!! My FH was said to me this weekend 'Why do you keep adding all of this stuff - it is just adding so much more $$$$'

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 15, 2010 09:26 PM

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Posted by RitasEngaged

Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Yes! Napkins and Matchbooks, and all sorts of little things. Oh, and personalized menus.

Like, now I feel like I need to have the L O V E letters Melissa had on her cake table.

I haven't given into the Channa plaque though... and thankfully at this point it's probably too late.

yeah i just had to do the menus table numbers and i just ordered my plaque the other day

Man you mean its NOT too late?! Don't tell me that!