Does anyone feel this way?

I may be acting silly but I often feel left out of my own wedding.

My BM's and mom are so wrapped up in Planning my bridal shower I often feel like they forget about the wedding. I dont want to sound like a ungreatful beotch, but I sometimes feel left out. I know they are doing it all for ME and I am so greatful; but they have their secret BM chat and blah blah blah and I just feel left out at times. No one asks me how wedding planning is going. FH doesnt help alot and I feel like its all on me. Does anyone else feel this way or am I just being a crazy emotional bride?

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YES!!!! Me!!! I don't even know who is gong to my bachelorette party because I am left out of everything! I am so grateful that they are all focusing on making me happy but I can't wait to be a part of what THEY are doing, haha

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Posted by emilyandlouie

YES!!!! Me!!! I don't even know who is gong to my bachelorette party because I am left out of everything! I am so grateful that they are all focusing on making me happy but I can't wait to be a part of what THEY are doing, haha

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Thats exactly how i feel!! I'm glad it isnt only me

Does anyone feel this way?

Haha AW!! Don't feel left out, it is ALL ABOUT YOU!!

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Posted by emilyandlouie

YES!!!! Me!!! I don't even know who is gong to my bachelorette party because I am left out of everything! I am so grateful that they are all focusing on making me happy but I can't wait to be a part of what THEY are doing, haha

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Same! I am not even being permitted to choose where we are going!

Does anyone feel this way?

O hell no I do not feel this way! I can not handle anymore decisions!! The only thing I'm doing or want to do for my showeris pick the dress. It'll be nice to be surprised! You're very lucky to have people who care about ur happiness!

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Yes!!! I know exactly how you feel. I got chewed out today by one of my MOHs because I mentioned on Facebook that I was bored on my day off. She turns around and tells me I should be registering and have a million other things to do for the wedding. My FH was working so what was I supposed to do exactly? Her and my mother are always secretly meeting and texting about the shower. It's A SHOWER. I appreciate all they are doing, but it's not that hard to throw a shower. If they think planning a shower is hard than how do they think it's like to plan a whole wedding yourself. Everyone just expects me to do everything and nobody ever offers to help.

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I don't think you're being a crazy emotional bride at all! I know how you feel. I feel really grateful to have such wonderful friends and family to throw me a shower and i am not involved in that at all since it's a surprise. It's really nice of them and generous to even do that. But sometimes I do feel like no one is asking me how the wedding planning is going or offering to help. Literally only one out of my 5 BM's and 2 MOH's have asked or even talked to me about the wedding at all in the past several months. So I can definitely relate to how you feel!

Does anyone feel this way?

you girls are the best! Thank you for making me feel a little less crazy! U girls put it perfectly! SUPER thankful to have such awesome ladies in my BP but I feel left out! Hopefully after the shower that will change!

What would I do without you liwedding ladies!

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Posted by Soon2BeMrsPy

Haha AW!! Don't feel left out, it is ALL ABOUT YOU!!

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THIS...you gals are probably like me and like to be in control of party plans to make sure everything is OKAY...

BUT the BM and parents/friends/family are doing all the whispering and convos to try to take stress off of you...not to make you feel left out...

MAYBE they are even trying to plan a few surprises...WHO KNOWS?

Does anyone feel this way?

You obviously have a fabulous group of ladies in your life and while I totally get being frustrated it'll all be worth it once they throw you a fabulous bash!