Does anyone have a list...

Also, remember Melissa the list is not a MUST have list, it is a recommended list. There are many, many things that the baby does not need right away or really at all. for instance a newborn does not need a highchair- you can wait to purchase that.
Car Seat is priority#1 since you cannot leave the hospital without one. And a place for the baby to sleep is priority #2. If I remember you are in an apartment so you will want to think of space when you consider items. A pack & play with a bassinet and changing table area will serve 3 purposes for you and take up less space then getting a bassinet, a changing table and a pack and play. The portable swing is smaller than the big ones, plus you can bring it to NY when you visit. You know what I mean?
Research everything first. BRU and Babycenter.com have great parent reviews on them.
Let me know if you need help with your list. sometimes those Internet lists are made for the retails to sell more products.

I live in an apartment, I bought a crib, and put a changing pad on top of my dresser. It worked.
Bottles.. You need a ton of bottles... I only had like six when he was born.. I was also breast feeding. I still needed more bottles. Formuls... if youre giving your baby formula... and diapers.. in newborn and one... some babies who are chunky around the bottom dont fit in the newborns right. If you have a big baby that will help too... and a ton of wipes. Those I think are most important.