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Does everyone live with their FH?

Original post by PeaceLoveWedding

I feel like I'm the only one who doesn't live with him yet...

EmilyandPeter Posted:

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We don't live together. But I CANNOT wait until we do. It will be so much easier to spend some time together.

linda_art Posted:

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We live together... Thank God. It is SO heavenly. Very grateful that we work so well together.
FutureMrsGTL Posted:

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We live together for almost a year now
thefloreswedding Posted:

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Posted by linda_art

We live together... Thank God. It is SO heavenly. Very grateful that we work so well together.


This!!!
I had to make sure we could live together before tying the knot. Thank God we work & live well together!
Bride in 2012 Posted:

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We don't live together. I'd like to move in but I doubt it's possible. My parents are practically paying for our entire wedding so my mom is holding that over our head. Every time I bring up moving in before getting married she responds with 'well your father won't pay for your wedding if you do.' Personally, I don't even want a huge wedding - it's all FH. I'd be perfectly fine with eloping somewhere but he wants the huge party. To be honest, I'd rather live with someone first to even make sure we were compatible living together. Dating someone when you don't live together and dating someone while living together are completely different experiences.

ddms7870 Posted:

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Not yet but we're working on it. FH has a house and I have a condo and neither of us are having any luck selling either one. He only put his house up last week so fingers crossed...we need to combine ASAP in order to really save. So stressful lately
1112bride Posted:

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No we don't. Not sure what will happen after the wedding, cause we probably can't afford a place of our own.

FutureMrsK2012 Posted:

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FH and I don't live together yet...in fact he lives in a completely different state! He lives with his fam in FL and I live with mine here (we've been doing the LD thing for our entire relationship). But...he's finally moving to NY next week!!
Soon2BeABC Posted:

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FH and I moved in together after 7 months of dating. We have been living together now since Aug. I love it and although I wish we didnt have the expense and could save that money by living at home, its well woth it.

Pinkchick913 Posted:

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Posted by AlexandMike2012

No :( Worst part is we did live together for 2 years...we picked up and moved to Boston pissed all of our money away living at a place we definitely couldn't afford, missed NY too much so moved back but both moved pack in with our 'rents separately to save money. We'll def get another place before we get married, but now we've been living apart for 2 years and IT SUCKS!!!! Especially when you had already lived together I feel your pain!



Fh and I lived together for 2 years as well and moved back home when we got engaged.

How is it going for you not living w/ him now? Fh and I have been arguing a lot lately and I think deep down I just really miss living w/ him.
Rivera2be Posted:

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We've been living together for about 2 years now. I moved into my new apt. about 3 years ago and at a year in he was practically staying over everynight and slowly leaving his stuff there so I told him to just make it official and move in.
We're hoping after the wedding we can move to a bigger place.
nilla24 Posted:

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My FH lives in Toronto, so I don't get to see him often ... much less get to live with him!

He usually comes to NY every other weekend and will be moving here in the Fall (we are just waiting for his fiance visa paperwork to get approved).

We just moved out of my old apt and into a new, bigger one and got new furniture, etc. So he likes to say he's just going back to Toronto for work and can't wait to come 'home' again.

AlexandMike2012 Posted:

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Posted by Pinkchick913

Fh and I lived together for 2 years as well and moved back home when we got engaged.

How is it going for you not living w/ him now? Fh and I have been arguing a lot lately and I think deep down I just really miss living w/ him.



omg there's someone else out there like us!!! I feel your pain!! I mean there's some days where it just really sucks, but we're both so busy building our businesses that weeks just fly by, we're together every weekend and see each other once or twice during the week, it's not ideal but it works and is making me look forward to living together again so much more than the first time! I think of it this way, I'd rather be living at home saving than barely getting by like we were when we were living in Boston, so I can hold out a little while longer.
wishingwell1230 Posted:

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Posted by AlexandMike2012

BUT the only good part is, it will make moving back in together so exciting all over again



aw cute and very true :)

FH and I live together. I never thought I would but I had my own place and he was living with his rents so he just starting spend more and more nights with me and his stuff started accumulating so it kinda just happened, there was no formal asking. haha though I did formall give him a key because for a while he was waking up with me when I had to leave for work so I could lock the door behind him! haha
Pinkchick913 Posted:

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Posted by AlexandMike2012


Posted by Pinkchick913

Fh and I lived together for 2 years as well and moved back home when we got engaged.

How is it going for you not living w/ him now? Fh and I have been arguing a lot lately and I think deep down I just really miss living w/ him.



omg there's someone else out there like us!!! I feel your pain!! I mean there's some days where it just really sucks, but we're both so busy building our businesses that weeks just fly by, we're together every weekend and see each other once or twice during the week, it's not ideal but it works and is making me look forward to living together again so much more than the first time! I think of it this way, I'd rather be living at home saving than barely getting by like we were when we were living in Boston, so I can hold out a little while longer.




FH and I see each other almost every day, although it's only for a few hours and it's either goodnight or goodmorning to one another , moving back in will be so exciting, I can't wait.
JRT5412 Posted:

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Posted by Bride in 2012

Dating someone when you don't live together and dating someone while living together are completely different experiences.



I completely agree with this and that is why FH and I live together now!!!! My parents could never understand this b/c I guess they forgot how hard it is to live someone else at the beginning. I guess thats why some ppl say the first year of marriage is difficult. I think it's difficult for those who don't live with their FH b/f because in that one year you have to adjust to one another and learn eachother's flaws. What he does that pisses you off , splitting bills, splitting chores, etc.. and it takes time to get used to it. At the beginning when FH and I lived together it was hard b/c we had to adjust to eachother and now we can't wait to come home and talk about our days and have dinner together and of course cuddle at night.
ndeokinanan Posted:

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I do not live with my FH...so your definitely not the only one. It doesn't really bother me though. It makes me feel like we are doing thins the traditional way
kdm822 Posted:

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Posted by PeaceLoveWedding

I feel like I'm the only one who doesn't live with him yet...



we dont.. he asked me yesterday what i was going to do when i cant say 'your annoying me go homeeee', i said dont worry im going to make the guest bedroom nice so you have a place to sleep
DonnaMarie7 Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsCat050412

we have an apartment together for a year & a half now!

We only saw each other on the weekends when we both lived at home so now we get to see each other everyday :)




This :) I turned my Brooklyn boy into a Long Islander!
roblisa09 Posted:

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Posted by EmilyandPeter

We don't live together. But I CANNOT wait until we do. It will be so much easier to spend some time together.



This!!!!!!!!!!! I have a lot of my things at his place and vice versa but I can't wait til its our own place!

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