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Does everyone live with their FH?

PeaceLoveWedding Posted:

Does everyone live with their FH?

I feel like I'm the only one who doesn't live with him yet...

AlexandMike2012 Posted:

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No :( Worst part is we did live together for 2 years...we picked up and moved to Boston pissed all of our money away living at a place we definitely couldn't afford, missed NY too much so moved back but both moved pack in with our 'rents separately to save money. We'll def get another place before we get married, but now we've been living apart for 2 years and IT SUCKS!!!! Especially when you had already lived together I feel your pain!
AlexandMike2012 Posted:

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BUT the only good part is, it will make moving back in together so exciting all over again
FutureMrsCat050412 Posted:

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we have an apartment together for a year & a half now!

We only saw each other on the weekends when we both lived at home so now we get to see each other everyday :)
JRT5412 Posted:

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It's Ok if you don't live with him. FH and I recently moved in together into our new apt. I had my own apt. and he had his own apt and we realized we were always staying in eachother's place everyday . So we figured why not move in together and just make it official instead of bouncing back and forth. We are already getting married anyway. It's helping us save for our wedding too b/c we split 1 rent instead of having 2 seperate ones.

I love living with FH!! I always said I wanted to live with the person I was going to marry first b/f going thru with it. That way i got to see if we could live together and get along and later on not end up in divorce b/c we couldn't stand being under the same roof. LOL. I mean my family is very traditional and they totally disagree with this but whatever i've never been too traditional
PeaceLoveWedding Posted:

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Posted by AlexandMike2012

No :( Worst part is we did live together for 2 years...we picked up and moved to Boston pissed all of our money away living at a place we definitely couldn't afford, missed NY too much so moved back but both moved pack in with our 'rents separately to save money. We'll def get another place before we get married, but now we've been living apart for 2 years and IT SUCKS!!!! Especially when you had already lived together I feel your pain!



Ugh that does stink. We 'live together' randomly when we go for a long vacation but that's it. I don't know what I would do if I were you, it's bad enough already but to go from living together to not, I'd be bummed.

We're apartment hunting right now so hopefully we'll move in over the summer.
AlexandMike2012 Posted:

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yup it sucksss!! But we're saving for the wedding so that's good...we're not aggressively looking for a place but if something we're looking for at the right price were to pop up we'd take now if now we're gonna save a little bit longer and then get a place.

aj721 Posted:

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We've lived together for a while now. He has basically has an apt at his parents house and I pretty much moved in with him as soon as I turned 18 and my parents couldn't stop me from sleeping there every night lol But I wish we didn't because that's supposed to be the fun of after the wedding and HM, you get to move in together!!!

Alannah22 Posted:

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FH and I don't live together yet. We are saving for a place to live. Hopefully by the summer we will find either a house or an apartment. I can't take much more of the living in two separate places.

CaughtMyFish Posted:

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not yet. FH and I both own co-op's and need to sell them, or at least one before the wedding. It's going to be wonderful once his (hopefully) sells and we can just pay 1 set of bills.

HersheyKiss727 Posted:

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FH and I do not live together yet. We are saving for a place but hope to have one before the wedding. It stinks that we don't live together but it def. helps with savings! I feel your pain!

deeda1129 Posted:

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don't feel bad!! my FH and i technically don't live together. He sleeps at my house but he actualyl lives at his mom's. My friend and her FH don't live together either.. no worries!!

deeda1129 Posted:

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Posted by HersheyKiss727

FH and I do not live together yet. We are saving for a place but hope to have one before the wedding. It stinks that we don't live together but it def. helps with savings! I feel your pain!



ITA!!!!
pixietina Posted:

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I have lived with FH for 3 years. We moved in together already knowing that this was going to be it. I'm glad we did it this way although my mom was pissed. That was when she realized that I wasn't traditional.

mara1017 Posted:

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I live with my FH and have for about a year and a half. We are buying out first house together and will be closing before we are married!

courtneydemarco12 Posted:

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I have been living with my FH 9 months now and I love it!!!

Jill52787 Posted:

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I don't live with FH. We're waiting until next year cause we want to pay the wedding off first. We live 5 mins apart so we still eat together every night, and I stay at his house on the weekends mostly. I don't think its bad at all! We're saving so much money!

Watermelon5 Posted:

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Posted by Jill52787

I don't live with FH. We're waiting until next year cause we want to pay the wedding off first. We live 5 mins apart so we still eat together every night, and I stay at his house on the weekends mostly. I don't think its bad at all! We're saving so much money!



same here! we stay together every night anyway, we just alternate whose house we're at lol! we need to save $$$~~
midnight26 Posted:

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well as of June we'll be living together!

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