does fh have a say?

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mine has a say but he isn't too interested in the bm dresses. he told me that whatever i want is fine with him.

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well he prob wont have say in my bm's dresses BUT he has had a say on the RH, the flowers, and so far the coloring of the Groomsmen's vests (i mentioned to him once i wanted pink as one of my colors and hes like 'HELL NO my guys aren't wearing pink vests)

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He has been pretty involved thoughout the planning process...but I dont think he cares about the colors, bm dresses, flowers or invitations.

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haha that is soo funny

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I do the research on vendors but he has a say when we're narrowing the choices down and he has made decisions in almost every part of the process. Surprisingly he was very vocal about photography and upgraded our album.

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Since we are both paying for the wedding, FH just has half the say on most things. He finally is giving his input on the RH. He will also give his opinion of photographer and videographer, and limo

I just gave him a list of limo prices and he was like....um honey let me handle the limo, coz I think I can get one fom less money than that. I was like ok...you can take on that responsibility.

Other than that, he has no say in the dresses, the colors, the flowers, nothing else. I AM IN CONTROL!!!

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He is included in on everything except the dress (mine and MOH) and the flowers (he doesnt really care what kind of flowers as long as they are silk, hes allergic)

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He cares about certain things--dj, photog, RH etc. But he couldn't care less about dresses, decor, flowers etc...as long as I don't go over budget!

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i would love to say 100% of the way but just not hair makeup shoes dresses and jewelry. but as for anything else 100%

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Nope... but I let him think he does.

Well, he's very easygoing with this stuff and he completely trusts my judgment (and knows I'm a tinyyy bit of a control freak lol) but he is totally fine with any RH I choose. We have the same taste with that; we both want the same sort of thing. As for colors, I told him our color scheme and he was totally fine with it... then he recently suggested we should have multi-colored roses for our centerpieces, which was a cute idea, except that he meant colors OTHER than our scheme!!! I was like 'sweetie, '5 or 6 different colors in the flowers' isn't part of our color scheme.' And he says, 'Ohhhh, I didn't realize flowers were also a part of the color scheme.' Hahahahah... so as you can see, this is why I am doing all the planning!!

But he is very musically inclined so he will be helping with the band choice, as well as the music played. Hmmm... that's about it!!

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AWWW! He is too cute. Just say 'ok honey' and leave it at that. I have a groomzilla whose opinions come out on the daily about the wedding. Just be relieved that he cares a little. LOL what a funny guy.

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FH wanted to be involved in the RH and the band. Other than that he just asks how much its costing him. However, lately he wants to be more involved, I think its b/c he feels its around the corner so in a few weeks he is coming with me to some appointments.

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He has a say after I narrow each vendor down to three choices. He has no patience and would just pick the first vendor cuz he hates shopping around for different things.

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FH just wanted to have a say in the RH everything else is up to me as long as its within the budget. He trusts me, he just wants to know how much