does fh have a say?

does fh have a say?

on anything??

i really wanted him to like our hall so he had a major say on the RH, and believe it or not he wants a say for the bm dresses!!!!??? i was like uhhhhh whats your request? he wants them alll to be strapless and exactly the same.... hmmmmm not too sure if ill go along with this one, what fh cares about this????!!!!

me and my fsil looked at him like he had 4 heads lol

Re: does fh have a say?

He doesn't have a say on just anything -- he has a say on EVERYthing. We got into an ARGUMENT in David's Bridal over the color of the BM dresses. I was so confused... I didn't even think he'd care.

It was my fault, I shouldn't have brought him in there in the first place. Style he doesn't care about -- color -- ooooh boy!

Re: does fh have a say?

Re: does fh have a say?

my FH is letting me take care of everything. In a way its great because I would probably want to strangle him, butttttt then again I dont want him to say 'oh why did you do that' in the end.

Re: does fh have a say?

FH is only having a say in the big stuff like RH, limos, photo maybe florist but i dont think he will want to be into that,

Everything else is mine on and the tuxes because god only knows what he will pick out

Re: does fh have a say?

FH has had a say in booking rh, video, photo, band but I dont think he'll care about colors or bms dresses, Then again, I could be wrong so we'll see.

Re: does fh have a say?

when we first got enganged we were hit wit so many questions at once!! so i started asking him about any ideas he had...he said he really didnt care about the details (flowers, colors etc.) it made me feel sad that he didnt want to plan all the little details with me

BUT THEN...one night he turns to me and says ' i was thinking about the BM dresses. I would like them to be a gold/champagne color' wwwwhhhhhaaattttt? so random!!! it did make me feel better that he was thinking about our day

what im doing now is looking into things & getting ideas from here and from friends/ family ...then i run it by him to get his opinion....we pretty much have the same ideas so its working out well so far

Re: does fh have a say?

Yes and no, he really had a say on the Hall and our Band other than those 2 things he has given me free range

Re: does fh have a say?

FH really wanted to be involved in the RH and band selection. Thankfully we have very similar taste (which is surprising since we are soooo different), and we agreed hands down on both RH and band. He didnt care too much about the florist I chose, but said he'd like to see my final choices on centerpieces. I dont think he'll care much about the bridesmaid dresses etc. He knows I want chocolate brown and said that fine...even though he hates brown!

Re: does fh have a say?

FH has a say in practically everything, this is his wedding too. he didnt care about the BM dresses though and also about the flowers BUT he did care about the color scheme so that stuff is kinda related

Re: does fh have a say?

So far the I've let my fh have a lot of say. I want him to be happy too on our big day!

But it is true, the stuff you would never think he would care about, he does! Like invitations and whether I'm having an ivory or white dress!

I love that he is so into planning, and it lets us work on our compromising skills a lil bit too!

Re: does fh have a say?

FH has a say in everything except bm dresses and my dress. Those are two calls that are mine

Re: does fh have a say?

He has a say in most stuff..he really just wants me to run things by him first, as for the dresses, he doesn't care

Re: does fh have a say?

He has a say in everything (except my dress of course). We've visited every vendor together, go to showcases together, we even agreed on the BM dresses together. I'm really glad he's so into the wedding because its our wedding, not just mine.

Re: does fh have a say?

my fh is soooo involved in everything, sometimes it drives me crazy. i look at at him amd tell him enough. although he don't care what dress i pick out for the girls. sometimes i wish he was not into this wedding as much as he is.

Re: does fh have a say?

He has a say in everything. Since we are paying for it. It's he day too and I want him happy.

Re: does fh have a say?

We agreed that the food and music are all him. Everything else is my decision. We'll see though...I'm sure a lot will change by then.

Re: does fh have a say?

a little not much

Re: does fh have a say?

Yeah, we both discuss what we think. But he definitely doesn't care about the flowers...

Re: does fh have a say?

ha whatever he decides he wants to get into...