does fh help

does fh help with the wedding planning?

mine just says babe it doesnt matter whatever you want...and its good to a certain point bc sometimes i just really want his opinion and he just says as long as this day is perfect for you idc lol...but then when it comes to certain things that i def dnt want him to have an opinion on he does lol..but for the most part all he ever says is idc as long as its perfect for you its your day!

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100%. He's sometimes more into than me. i love it!

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nope. like fine china..

i asked him what he thought bout a certain set. hes like'nice' im like ok u dont like them...

hes like no..not really..




he doesnt care. lol

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nope, doesn't care at all, leaves everything to me

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He always says, whatever you want babe...But i always ask his opinion and take it into consideration. There are something though that if he says he wants something, he will get it (like the honeymoon). He is a good mix of laid back and involved in all of this wedding planning.

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Once in a while..... He definalty wanted to be a part of our RH search and out DJ search. I always ask his opinion but don't always take it. He said there is no way he is going to florists. So he does and he doesn't. I like it that way, bc I can be controlling so it works.

He really only put his foot down on one thing... he wants no PINK in the cake... we are having Pink, Black and White.... he said he is going to be so sick of pink he wants just a black and white cake... which is fine with me!

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Yes and no. there are things that he is very interested in and has a strong opinion about and then other things he doesn’t care about. But even the things he doesn’t care about, I pass by him just to see if he really hates it or not.

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yes...he is really involved in meeting with vendors and what not. I know he doesnt really care about little details like colors, etc but all the big stuff he is very involved in.

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Posted by MrsC2010

yes...he is really involved in meeting with vendors and what not. I know he doesnt really care about little details like colors, etc but all the big stuff he is very involved in.

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Agreed - he couldnt care less about the colors and the flowers and fully supports me in my decision - but everything else he is 110% involved in

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he is so involved
i love it!!!!!!!!!

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Yes.. he comes to EVERY appointment.. even researches and looks into places and makes appointments for us LOL

i think it's all the years he has worked in catering halls that is rubbing off on him... he actually knows a lot about this kinds stuff.. he's a big help!

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he doesn't really care just wants to know how much it will cost

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He was involved in all the big decisions, hall, photographers, food, limos, etc....but little things like colors, invitations, flowers...he doesnt really get involved in

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All the big decisions he's involved in. He really doesn't have much of an opinion on things as every hall he went too he thought was nice lol except for 2 we both didn't like. I'm on the internet all day looking up vendors, getting ideas. I literally have to keep his head facing the computer screen when I show him ideas on flowers and such as he tends to look at the tv screen behind him alot lol.

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Mine helps, we both go to talk to vendors. He even went with me to talk to DOC's, but that was only because he thought it's unnecessary to have one and he wanted to know more about it.

I try to keep him informed on things I like, but I don't think he reads half of the emails I send him about stuff.

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not really i actually yelled at him lst night for this..but when i ask him to he will help..he just doesnt want to do anything on his own haha

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yea my FH says 'yes dear whatever you want' but then when he sees something he doesn't like he comments on it.. ugh

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Yes, he is involved with everything! I have the final decision for the most part, but he comes to every meeting and listens to me talk about wedding/wedding plans/LIW for hours at a time. He is into it and it makes me happy! He has been the best FH!

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whenever he's in the mood lol he'll sometimes come with me places or offer his opinion but for t emost part i do the grunt work

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Not really, but it's because I haven't asked.

He comes with me to appointments and gives his input, but most of the decisions are mine to make, and I'm happy with it that way