mine just says babe it doesnt matter whatever you want...and its good to a certain point bc sometimes i just really want his opinion and he just says as long as this day is perfect for you idc lol...but then when it comes to certain things that i def dnt want him to have an opinion on he does lol..but for the most part all he ever says is idc as long as its perfect for you its your day!
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He helps but it's only after I have done my research with my mom and moh. Because he is sooo carefree about the wedding planning, I ask him all the time are you sure your into getting married. He is most focused on the Honeymoon though.
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He is into it, but he doesn't really know what to do. So I plan and research everything, and he comes with me. He def has a lot of input on the whole RH-picking-out-process.
MikesBride2B
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Yes he's into every single minute little detail...I kinda wish that he wasn't. I like that he cares but at the same time it'd be nice if he didn't care about EVERYTHING.
Oh well, I'd probably be b!tching if it were the other way around.
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Hes soooo involved in EVERY aspect! Def. has strong opinions about some things....and is a total budgeter! It works out -we're well planned out./..& have gotten everything we want so far!
christine2010
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we made a deal that i wont annoy him with wedding planning until after this semester is over. so once june comes we will be in full wedding planning.
italgal
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He does in his own way. As far as being really helpful NOT! He has a great amount of trust in me & I'm glad that I can just say' hey guess what I just booked this and that' and he is totaly fine with it.
CristinanBen2010
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He does, He gives his opinions and comes to all appointments
beebs341
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NOT AT ALL! And thats fine by me, b/c I get to do whatever I want. Its MY wedding! Hahaha
eternitybride
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FH will say he really doesnt care, that he's ok with whatever I choose.... Then proceed to tell me that hes not a big fan of this, or he really likes tall centerpieces, he prefers magnets for the STD's, so I started including him.
When he tells me 'I really don't care hun, do whatever makes you happy' I point out to him that he will change his mind later, so save me the aggravation and come with me now
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i do ALOT of the research and stuff on my own...then ill call him and run things by him...if he could come to every apt with me, he would...but our sch are just too different sometimes...he was a big help in deciding on the venue and band...he totoally trusts me with the flowers, colors, linens etc...
he will def make apts and stuff for me..which sometimes is a HUGE help
it all works...bec im so damn picky about certain things...as long as he is listening and seems into it..im good
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my FH is so into the planning it's a little scary
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Posted by paprika023
yea my FH says 'yes dear whatever you want' but then when he sees something he doesn't like he comments on it.. ugh
Same here..lol
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Posted by grkbarbie
nope. like fine china..
i asked him what he thought bout a certain set. hes like'nice' im like ok u dont like them...
hes like no..not really..
he doesnt care. lol
my FH would never care about fine china and I dont blame him cause I dont even really care! hahaha
but everything else with the actual wedding he is involved in esp with the florist lolololol
