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MC127 Posted: Apr 10, 2009 10:31 AM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 10:31 AM

Re: does fh help

He helps but it's only after I have done my research with my mom and moh. Because he is sooo carefree about the wedding planning, I ask him all the time are you sure your into getting married. He is most focused on the Honeymoon though.

JAAMS Posted: Apr 10, 2009 11:43 AM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 11:43 AM

Re: does fh help

He is into it, but he doesn't really know what to do. So I plan and research everything, and he comes with me. He def has a lot of input on the whole RH-picking-out-process.

MikesBride2B Posted: Apr 10, 2009 11:46 AM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 11:46 AM

Re: does fh help

Yes he's into every single minute little detail...I kinda wish that he wasn't. I like that he cares but at the same time it'd be nice if he didn't care about EVERYTHING.

Oh well, I'd probably be b!tching if it were the other way around.

jenniejdyl Posted: Apr 10, 2009 11:46 AM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 11:46 AM

Re: does fh help

Hes soooo involved in EVERY aspect! Def. has strong opinions about some things....and is a total budgeter! It works out -we're well planned out./..& have gotten everything we want so far!

christine2010 Posted: Apr 10, 2009 11:53 AM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 11:53 AM

Re: does fh help

we made a deal that i wont annoy him with wedding planning until after this semester is over. so once june comes we will be in full wedding planning.

italgal Posted: Apr 10, 2009 12:43 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 12:43 PM

Re: does fh help

He does in his own way. As far as being really helpful NOT! He has a great amount of trust in me & I'm glad that I can just say' hey guess what I just booked this and that' and he is totaly fine with it.

CristinanBen2010 Posted: Apr 10, 2009 12:53 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 12:53 PM

Re: does fh help

He does, He gives his opinions and comes to all appointments

beebs341 Posted: Apr 10, 2009 02:17 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 02:17 PM

Re: does fh help

NOT AT ALL! And thats fine by me, b/c I get to do whatever I want. Its MY wedding! Hahaha

eternitybride Posted: Apr 10, 2009 03:21 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 03:21 PM

Re: does fh help

FH will say he really doesnt care, that he's ok with whatever I choose.... Then proceed to tell me that hes not a big fan of this, or he really likes tall centerpieces, he prefers magnets for the STD's, so I started including him.

When he tells me 'I really don't care hun, do whatever makes you happy' I point out to him that he will change his mind later, so save me the aggravation and come with me now

depoc1011 Posted: Apr 10, 2009 03:29 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 03:29 PM

Re: does fh help

i do ALOT of the research and stuff on my own...then ill call him and run things by him...if he could come to every apt with me, he would...but our sch are just too different sometimes...he was a big help in deciding on the venue and band...he totoally trusts me with the flowers, colors, linens etc...

he will def make apts and stuff for me..which sometimes is a HUGE help

it all works...bec im so damn picky about certain things...as long as he is listening and seems into it..im good

mariedsgn Posted: Apr 10, 2009 03:47 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 03:47 PM

Re: does fh help

my FH is so into the planning it's a little scary

mzmahagony Posted: Apr 10, 2009 07:45 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 07:45 PM

Re: does fh help

Posted by paprika023

yea my FH says 'yes dear whatever you want' but then when he sees something he doesn't like he comments on it.. ugh

Same here..lol

GonnaBeeMrsG Posted: Apr 10, 2009 07:54 PM+

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Posted: Apr 10, 2009 07:54 PM

Re: does fh help

Posted by grkbarbie

nope. like fine china..

i asked him what he thought bout a certain set. hes like'nice' im like ok u dont like them...

hes like no..not really..

he doesnt care. lol

my FH would never care about fine china and I dont blame him cause I dont even really care! hahaha

but everything else with the actual wedding he is involved in esp with the florist lolololol