I was reading another thread and a girl was complaining that her FH doesnt do anything around the house...This kinda made me feel bad bc my FH is the neat freak and not that i dont do anything lol but i am not obsessed with everything being overly organized like he is.
When i leave in the morning for work, i am running around like crazy to make the LIRR, i dont even have time to do my make up, i do it later on lol so i def dont have time to make the bed...when we get back to the house, FIRST thing FH does is make the bed, it drives him crazy, its like ok ill do it hold on.
He does dishes and laundry and likes to organize things especially the closet, which is a bit much i think...i mean the way he organizes it is crazy.
Im more of a person who likes things to be clean, such as no dust, sanitizing everything and things like that.
Does your FH help out with these things...for those who dont live together, do you know how he will be?
Fall Bride 2008
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FH has his hands in everything that I do he does everything I cant complain at all.
DGoldfarb0776
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FH helps out but before he moved in I had to lay down some ground rules.. such as if I go and cook for us it's his responsibilty to do the dishes and put them away.. also vice versa if he cooks..we both do our own laundry (for now). So far it's not been too much of a problem since we sat down and talked about it before he moved in.. I told him I am not .. not going to be cleaning up after his lazy behind .. yes he can be very lazy at times. But it's been going good so no problem here.
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FH is weird! Sometimes he is super UN-organized and pretty messy. BUT he often has phases where he is MR. CLEAN and the good thing about when he cleans is he REALLLLY cleans! Like SPOTLESS! And I looooooove it! I think we balance eachother out when it comes to cleanliness!
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Posted by DnellD809
FH is weird! Sometimes he is super UN-organized and pretty messy. BUT he often has phases where he is MR. CLEAN and the good thing about when he cleans is he REALLLLY cleans! Like SPOTLESS! And I looooooove it! I think we balance eachother out when it comes to cleanliness!
hahaha i am the same way as your FH
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I think FH and I have these cycles we go through..when we first started living together I was doing everything..cleaning, laundry, cooking.. and then I got sick of it and for a few weeks I let him do all the cooking, cleaning, and laundry...now we kinda pick up whenever we sense that the other person is really tired or we just want to be helpful...it's basically 50/50 now..
