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Does it bug you......

curliegirl Posted:

Does it bug you......

when people ask for advice/recommendations and then you go out of your way to help them and they don't use your reco's or even acknowledge it?

Sometimes I can be a little touchy, but I always say 'That's it, I'm not helping anyone anymore' and there I go again, being all helpful.......I gets me all ruffled.......
IrishBride-05 Posted:

Re: Does it bug you......

Yes, I have to say it bothers me and I have experienced it a lot recently. It makes me feel like my advice isn't even worth a 'thank you'
esb980 Posted:

Re: Does it bug you......

Well, on the flip side, if I ask someone for advice, and they go out of their way for me, i feel like I HAVE to take their advice to avoid hurting their feelings. I wind up getting things i don't want a lot!!

103005FallBride Posted:

Re: Does it bug you......

Lets just say people have FM'd me like crazy asking my opinions on situations that I personally did NOT want to get into regarding vendors we used for our wedding...then took what I had to say like it was a POS. Then..others approached me with same experience with vendors, so I stupid me thought it would be nice to just send an FYI like if you're interested I could forward you some info...but ONLY if you're interested. Of course...they're interested... Then...when it wasn't what they wanted to hear. All the crap hit the fan and I had vendors FMing horrible things to me.....

AND people wonder why I won't put up a review! It's not appreciated!

Ahhh...vent over!
hbradio Posted:

Re: Does it bug you......

Yep and frankly I am sick of it! But its hard not to help.....

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