does it drive u batty when...

does it drive u batty when...

Re: does it drive u batty when...

yes..see post below about FMIL.

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Posted by evnme

well-meaning people ask u a million questions about every detail of your wedding?
esp. when they fire off one after another?

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yessssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so sick of talking about it, dredging up the emotion and overwhelming myself with recounting everything i've been thru and everything looming on the horizon to accomplish.

lately, i've been saying in a joking tone: oh, don't ask! it's just so stressful! and change the subject...but tell me how YOU'RE doing

Re: does it drive u batty when...

yes... especially members of the bridal party who technically should be somewhat willing to be INVOLVED in same said plans! Not just bystanders!

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Or they say 'the wedding is close eh? and you're like..I just don't want to THINK about it for 5 minutes!!!

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Everyone at my office seems to be getting more excited about the wedding than me and keep saying 'you must be getting anxious and excited!' I just can't wait to see their faces when not one of them will be invited! I share with those who can offer insight and advice, but that's it!

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i get irritated when people ask how much more stuff i have to do...then i start thinking about how much more still needs to be done and i just want to

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'Oh, you're getting married?'

me-(grumpily) yes.

'How's the planning going?'

me-(still grumpy) it s ucks, don't ever get married. (then i smile so they realize i'm being sarcastic....but honestly, should there be a next time for some reason, I AM ELOPING!!!!)

Re: does it drive u batty when...

yes, especially when it's people that just want to see if I am stressed!

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I hate it when poeple ask, 'How do you feel, stressed?'

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