He doesn't want to go, but I'm not sure if he's supposed to be there or even come at the end.
julz33
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I don't know for sure but for all the showers I have been to the FH comes at the end.
ETS: The FH sometimes come in the beginning too... to bring the girl there.
janwinterbridejoy
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my dh came in the beggining to give me my corsage and then he left and didnt come back untill it was time to carry all our gifts home
brideinapril
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My FH brought me there, left, then came back at the end when we were having cake.
Chloegirl
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FI got me there...left and came back at the end for desert and to pack up the car!
DrmnBlnd
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Mine just dropped me off- he didn't want to stay- he would have been the only guy!
dkwife
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I have seen them come at the end with flowers or something... it's sweet.
kathleenmarie
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Mine didnt come at all. My MOH brought me.
FLaCaTaCa
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I have been to a couple and the FH drops her off and picked her up with all the gifts. That is all I have seen. These days...anything goes though!
drewsgirl
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MY FH was there with flowers for me when I walked into the restaurant and then he came back at the end to help bring everything home.
Bebalina
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Posted by janwinterbridejoy
my dh came in the beggining to give me my corsage and then he left and didnt come back untill it was time to carry all our gifts home
yea thats how i always thought it was too
fallinlove04
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i threw one for my friend when i was maid of honor and the groom and his dad ended up staying. it was fun. i don't know what my fi will do, but i think my mom may want him my dad and my brother there...we shall see....
my m om went to one where the groom and brides dad stayed too. she said is was great to see them there. they just kind of hung out in the back, but helped out moving stuff.
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Posted by janwinterbridejoy
my dh came in the beggining to give me my corsage and then he left and didnt come back untill it was time to carry all our gifts home
Same here
Donna
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Mine was a little different. FH stayed as did his father, brother and uncle. We never saw them though - they were in the bar part of the restaurant and we were in another room. I liked it because he was able to meet a lot of people from my side and have a chance to get to know them.
Scoop
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My husband walked me in, said hello to everyone and then left. He came back later to help with the gifts.
luvsun27
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We live in NJ....my shower was not a surprise...but I made FH drive to LI and come to the end...to say hi to everyone...and pack up the car and take some stuff home!!! I drove myself, so we had 2 cars and I really didn't need him to come....but I thought he should
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When I was MOH for my sister's wedding her FH drove her there. My FH was htere too, cuase he had driven his mom. The 2 guys ate and left for awhile during presnts (actually to get my brithdya present).. and there were othe men there too, and they hung out together at the bar at the place.
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Fh would not want to come. If you are having a jack and jull shower than he would be These days I see men and women at showers - even when groom is missing!!!
My Fh will ome at the end or maybe not at all depending on his plans
CantWaitMay04
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Mine was a little different as well. I had asked my mom to do the Wishing Well for him instead of me so he ended up coming to the shower with about an hour left. What I liked about it is that they surprised him as well. Everyone told him that he needed to come an hour before the end because there was a surprise they wanted him to see. It was really cute because he got tools, wine stuff (we're both into wines) etc. It made him feel like a part of it as well!
