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Does you FH love you more or do you love him more?

ckgmwedding Posted:

Does you FH love you more or do you love him more?

Strange question I know... But my best friend's mom, who's husband cheated on her told us when were 14 to marry a man who loves us more. So I was curious what you think?


BTW: For me it shifts back and forth, one week I think I love him more and the next I see it as reversed...
Mrs_B Posted:

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I think for us its equal There isn't anything I wouldn't do for him and I know he feels the same about me aww
ckgmwedding Posted:

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Awwww... I just asked since I realized tonight its my turn to be the one who loves him more....

He is visiting him mom this weekend and she is deciding if she needs to put her husband (not his dad) who has Altizminers(sp?) in a home. He is so worried about her and not me right now and I am not even there to hug him or her.
meredith24 Posted:

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I love him more then ever before. It has been stressfull but somehow i feel like we have clicked on another level.

prncssrachel Posted:

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I'd say we love each other equally. I think I would feel weird if one of us loved the other more. I like to be on even playing ground.

LuvMyMichael Posted:

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I always tell Michael I love him more....and he says no that he loves me more.
WedHead Posted:

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Posted by ckgmwedding

Strange question I know... But my best friend's mom, who's husband cheated on her told us when were 14 to marry a man who loves us more. So I was curious what you think?


BTW: For me it shifts back and forth, one week I think I love him more and the next I see it as reversed...



I feel like my mom may have told me that too - or someone along the way. It's a protective thing I guess - sort of like, make sure you can walk away strong if his love for you ever changed (which makes sense coming from the woman that was cheated on). Not the healthiest way to start a marriage

For me, I think our love complements the other person's. I don't think either of us love each other more than the other - just differently. There's no doubt in my mind that it's the little things we do for each other (not only in marriage but in all people in our lives) that proves our love. Grand gestures are often a lot easier than the sacrifices and random acts of kindness we show each other on a daily basis. When you think about all the little things, you know they equal a whole lot of love and that's what's important.
February05 Posted:

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i think we love each other equally, BUT we go back and forth w/ who shows it more. sometimes me, sometimes him
akaMrsT Posted:

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Posted by ckgmwedding

Strange question I know... But my best friend's mom, who's husband cheated on her told us when were 14 to marry a man who loves us more. So I was curious what you think?


BTW: For me it shifts back and forth, one week I think I love him more and the next I see it as reversed...



I was told this too!!!! My dad told me & my best friend this same thing when we were about 13 years old.
italia6973 Posted:

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I think we love each other equally, but he definitely shows it more than I do.

angelbear217 Posted:

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In reality we love each other equally, but FH says he loves me more than I love him and I say I love him more. I guess it's one of those things we have.
BethGail Posted:

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someone told me that once as well...that you should marry a man that loves you more because men love and women learn to love.....i dont believe that.

we both love each other equally....just sometimes one of us shows it better
conigs25 Posted:

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We love each other 100/100

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