Does your FI have a friend that you can't stand???

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Posted by DrBeLLaRoSe

i have one friend of fh's that i really dont like... they have been friends since childhood but i really dont know him at all, i've only met him twice.

the reason i started to not like him is this: the friend is engaged. one day he called my fh to tell him about his trip to ac, and i could hear their conversation b/c the cell phone was so loud. The first thing he said to my fh was ' there were mad hot b*tches there.' Hmmmn how annoying, he has a fiancee so why does he care about other girls so much that he has to call my fi to tell him? other reason i dont like him is because they hang out together when they feel like smoking (not cigarettes). And the last reason i dont like him is because they went to a strip club together, b/c that is where he wanted to go. When i talked to him after that and said i was mad about the strip club he said that his fiance did not care and that i should learn to relax. (which is not true, he never told his fiance he went). He also said i should break up with my fiance because i am making his life miserable.

so i don't like him.

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what a P R I C K !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
id hate him too! i hate him and my FH doesnt even know him!!

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Posted by Preshy7

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Posted by DrBeLLaRoSe

i have one friend of fh's that i really dont like... they have been friends since childhood but i really dont know him at all, i've only met him twice.

the reason i started to not like him is this: the friend is engaged. one day he called my fh to tell him about his trip to ac, and i could hear their conversation b/c the cell phone was so loud. The first thing he said to my fh was ' there were mad hot b*tches there.' Hmmmn how annoying, he has a fiancee so why does he care about other girls so much that he has to call my fi to tell him? other reason i dont like him is because they hang out together when they feel like smoking (not cigarettes). And the last reason i dont like him is because they went to a strip club together, b/c that is where he wanted to go. When i talked to him after that and said i was mad about the strip club he said that his fiance did not care and that i should learn to relax. (which is not true, he never told his fiance he went). He also said i should break up with my fiance because i am making his life miserable.

so i don't like him.

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what a P R I C K !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
id hate him too! i hate him and my FH doesnt even know him!!

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I agree, loser..My DH has one friend also that is not my favorite person. He has his own MO and if you don't fit into it then he whines to make sure that my DH changes his plans to accommodate him. My DH goes along with everything and says well if I'm not upset you shouldn't be. I think this guy takes advantage of him. Nothing I can do about it.

When Mr Boots and I started to date I didn't like any of his friends. One of them made me really nervous and uncomfortable, another was constantly trying to convince Mr Boots that I was cheating on him ( ) and the rest were just really heavy drinkers, partiers and scary.

When he went back to school, got a full time job and became really serious with me his old friends were angry that he didn't have time for them so he dropped them.

I love his friends now. They're good guys, supportive of him, understanding, fun.

Except for this one girl he's known since first grade...miserable, whiny, desperate for attention, mean, shallow, selfish... But she's his headache, not mine!

I can't stand one of FH firends or his girlfriend. Beforethe friend started dating this girl he would come and hang out with us when ever we went upstate (which is where he lives) so I don't have to dealwith him that often. Well once he started dating this girl he wouldn't come out anymore and always wanted us to go to his apartment to hang out which was ok for a little while but they had 3 cats and a rotwiler (SP?) in a 3 room apartment and there was cat hair all over the place and my allergies would act up so I hated going there to just sit there. Well this guy had the nerve to come up to me and complain that its not right that my FH don't spend m uch time with him and always wants to go out. I basically told him listen we drive 3 1/2 hours up here to see Fh family and friends and your not his only friend that he wants to see so thats why we will go out and get everyone together no one else has a problem with this so why should you. He tells me well I really dont' like going out I told him bullsh*t cuz you use to go out all the time before you met this chick. So its her that won't let you go out and thats not my problem or my FH problem. I jsut told him off and he went up to my FH and said I don't think you FH likes me cuz she jsut flipped on me and I told FH what I said to him.
My FH finally realized that he aint worth it cuz he finally realized that this guy is so whipped that he does everything his girlfriend says so basically sh ruined their friendship

You have no idea..........I never really had a problem with her until our Engagement party came around. She RSVPed YES for herself. We found out through another friend that she was going to be going on a planned cruise with her ex b/f and his family at the same time as our party. I guess she was originally thinking that she wasn't going to go on the cruise since they had already broken up. So we waited for her to tell us that she wasn't going to be able to make it and she never did. Can you believe that she just didn't show up. Who does that to their friends?????

So, now I have not spoken to her since. We've been out and seen her, and we ignore eachother. My FH has said Hi to her, but I refuse to. He says that I should be the bigger person and say Hi...I think he is crazy to even expect that. We've gotten into little arguements about it and the whole thing is really not fair. Why should we have to say anything to her, she really should be explaining herself to us!!!!!

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Posted by beautyq115

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Posted by july06bride

ummmmm do i have to pick just one?????

He has a female friend with whom i cant stand since she is forever throwing herself all over him- they 'dated' when they were like 16 no big deal- but still right in front of me she will flirt;I HATE HER! We dont see her too often because of this deep hatred i have for her...

then he has one friend, and unfortunately he is a GM... he is a;ways drunk..always- 10am doesnt matter but no he doesnt have a problem... then they go out, this guy always seems to get into fights, doesnt have a girlfriend and always badgers fh why he cant go out every weekend, thur fri and sat!!!! UMMM maybe cause he is NOT single ! and doesnt want to risk everything for a night out with you! He is a nice guy i guess, never did anything to me personally, i just dont like how he is

i guess those are the two i really dont like, most others are basically ok

but fh is the only one with a serious girlfriend/fiance and that makes things a bit weird...they dont get the whole being in an adult relationship thing...

oh well it will happen with time i guess

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I am glad you posted...I was beginning to think I was a really beoch because everyone else liked their FI friends

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DITTO!!

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Posted by beautyq115

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Posted by july06bride

ummmmm do i have to pick just one?????

He has a female friend with whom i cant stand since she is forever throwing herself all over him- they 'dated' when they were like 16 no big deal- but still right in front of me she will flirt;I HATE HER! We dont see her too often because of this deep hatred i have for her...

then he has one friend, and unfortunately he is a GM... he is a;ways drunk..always- 10am doesnt matter but no he doesnt have a problem... then they go out, this guy always seems to get into fights, doesnt have a girlfriend and always badgers fh why he cant go out every weekend, thur fri and sat!!!! UMMM maybe cause he is NOT single ! and doesnt want to risk everything for a night out with you! He is a nice guy i guess, never did anything to me personally, i just dont like how he is

i guess those are the two i really dont like, most others are basically ok

but fh is the only one with a serious girlfriend/fiance and that makes things a bit weird...they dont get the whole being in an adult relationship thing...

oh well it will happen with time i guess

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I am glad you posted...I was beginning to think I was a really beoch because everyone else liked their FI friends

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Glad to know I am not the only one too