Does your SO Know about all of your past 'experience?'

Original post by marymoon

Feb 11, 2005 04:16 PM

My FH knows EVERYTHING

Hazeleyes33 Posted: Feb 11, 2005 09:12 PM

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YES!! He was my first boyfriend-lol! I was 17 and he was 19 when we met.

boosh78201 Posted: Feb 11, 2005 09:57 PM

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Yes we both know everything which isnt that much 'history' to tell anyway.

xjulietx Posted: Feb 11, 2005 10:25 PM

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Yes, we were friends for a while before dating so I know three of his past girlfriends (two with whom he slept)

He was my first, so aside from knowing that I kissed and made out with a few guys, there isn't much to tell.

Mrs_B Posted: Feb 11, 2005 11:22 PM

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He knows limited things about my past, as I do his. Im not really interested in knowing everything. the past is the past

JimmysBride Posted: Feb 12, 2005 12:29 AM

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He knows everything he needs to know and as much as he wants to know.

We definitely know exactly who each of us has been with, the number, maybe a few quirky details or anecdotes...and that's pretty much everything to me. I wouldn't want to know any more and I don't think he would either.

There was a lot less 'experience' for me to share.

I wouldn't be able to be with someone if I didn't know their 'number' and who those women were (meaning a little of the story behind each of them).

beautyq115 Posted: Feb 12, 2005 03:17 PM

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Not interested...I don;t even want to know their names.

palebride Posted: Feb 12, 2005 05:14 PM

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We both know each other's pasts......but there's not much to tell, so it's not a big deal

Jax430 Posted: Feb 12, 2005 05:29 PM

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Neither of us has very exciting history to talk about, but we both know all of it. We know most of each other's exes anyhow.

ckgmwedding Posted: Feb 12, 2005 06:51 PM

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Posted by Butterflybride

I would tell him everything if he really wanted to know, but he prefers not to hear it. He gets very bothered hearing about my past and it's the same way for me. I'd rather just not know about it.

Same here- we are in our 30's and I was a wild child so I would rather he didn't know. He hates hearing about anything I did before him, including things like vacations. Its really weird.
I really don't care. I actually wouldn't mind hearing about his past. It doesn't bother me.

DjPiLL Posted: Feb 12, 2005 06:52 PM

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FW doesn't give a crap about my past.

J.Lo24 Posted: Feb 13, 2005 06:29 PM

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Yes, we both know about eachothers past. He has more to tell being that he is 6 yrs older then me. I was 18 when I started dating him.

Bebalina Posted: Feb 15, 2005 12:56 PM

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Posted by J.Lo24

Yes, we both know about eachothers past. He has more to tell being that he is 6 yrs older then me. I was 18 when I started dating him.

same here

FeliciaDA Posted: Feb 15, 2005 01:21 PM

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Posted by JimmysBride

He knows everything he needs to know and as much as he wants to know.

Well put And this is true for me and my husband as well

We are both older, we both have pasts.. I know about his significant ex's and vice- versa. But after doing the 'history' talk the 1st time, we never really chatted about it again.

While we both obviously konw there were other people before us, neither of us want too many 'specific' details...

MCDO15 Posted: Feb 15, 2005 02:24 PM

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FW cares most about my most recent ex as she (ex) scared me pretty bad. she had to 'fix' things with me because i was very unemtional at first.

i tell fw every now again if it were to come up, that had she not f'ed up, i wouldnt of met you and be marrying you in 26 days...

but to answer the questoin directly, we both know 100% who we been with and what kind of activities were played

bxgell2 Posted: Feb 15, 2005 02:38 PM

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Nope... DH and I are older, so we had more of a past before we met each other. It doesn't really bother me, but he prefers not knowing. Occasionally he asks a few little questions, and I'm totally open about it, but I can tell he's not comfortable knowing. He jokes around every now and then that he's sooooo lucky he married a virgin

Thumballina Posted: Feb 15, 2005 04:11 PM

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yes...I told him up front...

ellengrisal Posted: Feb 15, 2005 07:55 PM

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i know general information, like about his significant girlfriends and he knows about my significant boyfriends, but sexual partners? no way! it's not important nor would it benefit the relationship. i had some crazy times in college and the post collegiate years, partying in the city. that was my private single life that will remain my little secret we are both adults with our own backgrounds that won't haunt either one of us, so i don't care about not knowing!!

maiahsdad Posted: Feb 15, 2005 08:14 PM

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Posted by DjPiLL

FW doesn't give a crap about my past.

very well said rich...........sounds like my life

violet Posted: Feb 16, 2005 02:17 PM

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I cared about details like how many, etc. when we were first together...but now I don't care. He couldn't even give me a straight answer.

There is not much to mine. I was in a serious relationship from 18 to 20 (and nothing big happened under 18 for me) and then met him a month or two after that relationship ended.