DOJ

do they normally just wear their own?

for my BM's and MOH, i want to give them something to show thanks, so i'm planning on making them a little tote with some cute stuff in it (haven't figured out what the cute stuff will be yet)... but then i also want to give them something a little more meaningful...

IDK

it all depends on what you want. If you want the BMs to have matching jewelry than I would buy them something. If you don't care what they were the day of, then there's no need for you to buy it and you can get them something else.

I would also, if you do get them something, really try to not make it super expensive because I find that a lot of them times, the jewelry I'm given for a wedding I never wear again because it's just not my style. I will gladly wear it for the wedding if that's what the bride wants, but I have yet to receive something I will actually wear again.

I don't think I'm doing jewelry for my bridal party. they can wear whatever they want. I pretty much trust their taste. I'm probably doing clutches that they can still use after the wedding

clutches is a cute idea!

my BM's all have such varying personalities... so hard to figure out a common theme....

i think i'm just going to treat all my girls to a day at the spa after the wedding.

they can wear anything the want the day of..

i feel like that just makes the most sense.