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like when i talk to 'non-brides' about my wedding and say that i have no time to do this and i have to get this done, i hate when they say 'oh you have plenty of time'. ummmm....no i don't!!! i have 3 and a half months and i have a shiit load of stuff to do!! i still haven't got my invites!!!!!

does anyone else feel me here??!?!

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yes.. its annoying.. happens to me all the time!!

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I hate it too. While I do have 7 more months to go, no one (except a fellow bride and LIWer ) understands that I have no summer and that before I know it, the fall will be here. It is very frustrating.

Yesterday half of my family was making fun of me about the wedding and it seriously p!ssed me off. Everyone kept opening their mouths when we started updating our apartment and now they all say what a great idea it was to get it done when we did since we don't have a lot of time this summer

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They have NO idea

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yeah, my aunt kept saying 'why don't you do your favors, the programs, and purchase the decorations the week of the wedding...

She couldn't have been thinking those comments out as she said them......

could you imagine wrestling with the printer in the 11th hour? or working picking up your gown into your program printing schedule?

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oh thank you thank you...i was seriously starting to think i was crazy. i have like a million and one things to do and i feel with working 2 jobs i just have no time to do anything. i don't even have time to have a life!! not like a social life, i mean living life. i haven't done laundry in 2 months!!!! and b/ci love being so creative, i left myself with so many DIY projects!!! i'm glad there are other ppl in the same boat. not that i'm wishing 'no time' on anyone, i just mean that there are others with no time like me!

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You said it Jess. Also, then I have friends saying 'oh you have everything done right'. There's nothing left for you to do. A- hello, I told you I get paid twice a month and all my wedding stuff is paid from my paycheck. So yes, we have plenty to do.

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non- brides don't get it

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Doesnt happen to me often..but if it did I would totally feel like this

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Posted by leshellem

I swear one more person says that to me I'm going to scream.

But the one I hate the most is 'Well you have all your major vendors, what else is there to do?'
I hate people.

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OMG that's the comment i hate the MOST! even FH says that all the time. it drives me CRAZY!!

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yup!!! I feel ya Jess!!

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I know what you're saying! no one else gets it!

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I hate that also, I am like I have just about 5 months till the wedding, it's not a lot of time a lot of time was 11 months. Unless we want to be running around liek chickens with our heads cut off you don't wait till the last minute. They have no clue. This is why we aren't suppose to get married twice bc it is too much work!!

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i can totally relate. . . i have it a little worse i think bc i am an 2008 bride. . . so it's like oh that isn't until next year. . . like i am going to get a whole lot done in those eleven days!