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being ignored by Bridesmaids?

Does anyone else have this problem??

Ive tried to contact this one problem BM atleast 4 or 5 diffrent times diffrent ways ( phone call, Fb group, personal text, group text) about getting mesasured for the BM dresses. I made this appointment about a month ago so she knew about it for a while. NOW she isnt answering me when I text her about it... this is also the same BM who didnt come to try on dresses because 'she was blow drying her hair'. Ive been very calm but now im about the FLIP the fauckkk out.

What do I do? Has anyone had a similar problem???

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Send her a serious text and tell her you understand that shes busy but it's not fair that shes not communicating with you at all! Ask her one last time if she would like to be a bm

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Yes!!!! My BM waited to the last day to go for there fitting....Grrrr

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I have no patience. Having tried that many times to contact her id say shes out. I have a girl I invited to my e-party next weekend she hasnt rsvped and ive tried multiple ways to contact her too. I gave up im not chasing you, dont come and dont expect a wedding invite either. Frustrating!!

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yuppp. and that same BM is getting annoyed bc a month before my wedding she decides she needs help with the dress (convertible style) that she has had more a year and now I don't have as much free time to help her. ughhhhhh

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So inconsiderate!!!! I just say wait till its their turn and they will understand too.

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Contact her once more and if she doesn't respond, I think you have to make an executive decision....

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Thanks girls for the support. I am going to text her one last time to see if she still wants to be a BM and what her problem is. Depending on what happens I might need to cut her out. SOOO Stressfull. We have been friends forever and I know things wont be the same after this :(

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What if your next contact says something like that. Something like:
'We have been friends for so long and I don't understand why, at the most excited time in my life, you have chosen to be so distant. I would love nothing more than to share this moment with you and it just won't be the same without you there, but I need you to communicate with me. If things go one this way now, after my wedding, our friendship will not be the same.'
Be very honest with her. Is it possible she's jealous? Not saying the way she's behaving is appropriate but maybe she doesn't realize what she is doing and how it will affect your friendship in the future. If she does know and she doesn't care then I'd say cut her out of your wedding and your life. People's true colors shine in times like these.
Good Luck